Was on a date with this girl which went pretty well apart from the usual odd awkward moment, maybe too well as she came back to my place. A good thing you'd think and it should have been but I wasn't prepared; my flat was untidy and to top it all a mixture of booze and 'stage fright' meant my performance was strictly below par between the sheets. Anyway she got a taxi in the middle of the night (she had said she would though).
I texted her the next day and asked her if she'd had a good time and apologised for the above. She mentioned nothing of it but just that she was fine.
To cut a long story short, should I call her and if so when? Where would you think I stand?
2007-03-20 07:31:34 · 13 answers · asked by secondslip 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She seems easy, dump her and move on.
2007-03-20 08:48:33 · answer #1 · answered by Gilligan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got a case of the nerves and she's probably aware of that. I think she'd appreciate a phone call to say that you enjoyed her company and ask if she's interested in going out again. It's usually considered good etiquette to call the following day.
2007-03-20 07:35:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Text the first day after and call the second day is fine... at least you will know in the future to clean up BEFORE and after!
I don't think you will have any further problems and to be honest it can only get better can't it?!
Good luck.
2007-03-20 09:29:28 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think you've done anything wrong. You dont say when the date was but you may aswell ring her now. If she's a decent girl then she should see further than a messy flat. If she can't then she's really not worth going any further with
2007-03-20 07:43:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How often do you usually see her ? I think you can just phone her or text her to ask her to go out again sometime...and see what her answer is. Just be natural, and it'll go fine.
And make it a good night. Tidy up your flat and don't get too drunk before the date. ^^
2007-03-20 07:38:30 · answer #5 · answered by Nono 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to stop worrying so much. THat is a complete turnoff...just wait til she calls you back. You should be confident enough in yourself to think that she will...and that you don't have to do that. Girls like confidence. We don't care about how clean your house is...just be nice, respectful, and good in bed...girls will be calling you back and you won't have to worry about when YOU should call her!!!!!!
2007-03-20 07:36:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i reckon you should call her, make a joke of not being in great between the sheets, and say you wanna really show her what you are made of....make light of it...ask out for a drink and see how it goes....good luck
2007-03-20 07:36:17 · answer #7 · answered by deni 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would wait a day or so after the text n then call her
good luck
2007-03-20 07:37:33 · answer #8 · answered by tor-van 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i personally dont know. but coming from a gurl. i'd want a call today. not later or even more later. just NOW!
2007-03-20 07:38:23 · answer #9 · answered by Perfectly Unperfect Gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes answered your phone call, so thats a good start if she wasnt interested she would ignore you ,take the plunge and call her.
2007-03-20 07:41:48 · answer #10 · answered by bonnie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now. She deserves a call.
2007-03-20 07:34:58 · answer #11 · answered by marleyfu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋