i dont think i've done well in my 12th board exams and i think i am going to get really bad marks. i feel the whole world crashing down around me and dont know what to do. i have shattered my whole future and am scared out of my wits. is there any future for me??? :(
2007-03-20 07:29:36 · 7 answers · asked by :) 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
There is always a bright, happy and successful future. First, call a good friend to talk things out. Sometimes, things really seem bad, but if you just ride it out, you will be surprise at how things can brighten up in no time.
Your future is not shattered. You may have to make a rest stop or detour, but as long as you have breath, you have a future and it can be, maybe not all that you want it to be, but be a future where you won't feel like the world is crashing down on you.
I hope that this has helped. Please be safe. You do have a great future!
2007-03-20 07:41:33 · answer #1 · answered by Sapphire 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, no matter what, you haven't shattered your whole future.
Second, you don't know how well you did. A lot of people who did fine or even really, really well feel like they blew their test.
You were nervous when you took it, and there's a good chance your mind exagerated your mistakes and failed to note where you did well.
But even if you didn't do as well as you hoped, there are options.
I'm in the US, so don't know -- can you take it again? If so, you should.
What are your educational options? (Here, we have community colleges you can go to, then transfer to a 4-year college after; no harm, no foul.)
Most likely you're just feeling the stressiness that such tests bring.
Talk to your friends and family -- see if anyone you know thought they blew it, especially those who later found out they did fine.
But even if you can't go to college, live isn't over -- I hope you DO get to go, don't get me wrong.
Since you won't know the results, try not to obsess on it too much -- do things that will distract you.
After all, right now you don't know how you did -- all you have is your nerves to go by, and they are NO indication.
2007-03-20 21:37:15 · answer #2 · answered by tehabwa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may be surprised, you may well have done better than you think.Its quite common to think you have failed when in fact you haven't. Look, you did your best at the time, now you will have to wait and see how you did. If you have failed then that doesn't mean you won't succeed at something else. maybe you could retake your exams? Life goes on regardless and if this path is not for you then something just as good or even better will come along. I believe there is a greater plan and even if you can't see it at the moment it will become clear in time.Don't despair.
2007-03-20 14:42:36 · answer #3 · answered by jo h 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your just dealing with the aftermaths of test anxiety. You need to tell yourself it's not the end of the world. If you still feel this way in a few days you should see a school counselor or your adviser,they are there to help you.
2007-03-20 14:41:58 · answer #4 · answered by merrymeet2005 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course there is. Maybe you just need to find a different direction. Fate always steps up to point you the right way. Don't worry, you'll see.
2007-03-20 14:44:25 · answer #5 · answered by DeborahDel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u r in india plz reply to me i have gone thru the same thing after my 12th exams and found a solution
2007-03-24 06:21:44 · answer #6 · answered by lovely 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course there is, you need to find something your great at and follow through with it..
2007-03-20 14:34:29 · answer #7 · answered by ompie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋