I've been seeing this guy now for 7 months and I know I'm falling for him...I had a crush on him a whole year before we hooked up...we get along great but 3 or 4 months into the relationship I tried to tell him and he backed away telling me that he needed time to get to know me better... we have gotten to know each other more since several more months have passed...should I tell him now that I love him? or should I just wait it out
2007-03-20 07:24:32 · 17 answers · asked by Mary S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No--don't verbalize that you love him. Demonstrate that you love him with your actions instead. Actions speak louder than words. In time, he may feel the same way about you and then you'll be able to express your feelings. Give it more time.
2007-03-20 07:29:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Love is a VERY strong word/emotion. Be careful on how you use it. Do you think hes ready? Do you think he can handle it? If you think he is, just "break"it to him gently. Some people are freaked out by that word....
"I just wanted to let you know that I love you. You dont have to say it back, but its how I feel about you. Ive liked you for a long time now and these feelings are real...I just thought it was time I told you" and *smile* =) Something like that.... Good Luck girl!
2007-03-20 14:31:06 · answer #2 · answered by da_nikkster 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, telling someone you love them isn't something that you plan. It's something that just comes out. It's a "moment" thing that you'll feel.
I remember the first time I told my wife I loved her. I was a goofy mess and practically tripped over my tongue. I was very sheepish about it... until she said she loved me too. :-)
If you feel that strongly, then, just tell him. But wait for the moment. Don't plan it, just let it happen.
I'm excited for you. Love is great. Good luck!
2007-03-20 14:29:59 · answer #3 · answered by Joe Bostonian 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how beautiful it is to fall in love somebody!!!
I am now having a big big crush on a girl.
I am so thrilled also.
who said you are happy cuz you love not cuz you are loved?
at least indirectly you d better make him know how you feel about him.
one example
tell him
' i often think of you even in a day, the very thought of you makes me dreamy ( and sweet and alive)
2007-03-20 14:33:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u love him tell him and if he dont leave then he might love u back but is not sure how to tell u. or just wants more time if he dosent tell u he loves u right away dont leave, just see what happens within the next few months.
2007-03-20 14:31:35 · answer #5 · answered by ashley G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has he given you any indication that he may love you now? Any serious changes of heart or have things stayed the same? I would probably say that you should ask him how he feels before you put your heart out there and wear it on your sleeve...
2007-03-20 14:28:46 · answer #6 · answered by In Love with Mr. Perfect! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait! I know it's hard, but since you already told him how you feel, he already knows. You can show how much you care about him by actions, but leave the words out!
2007-03-20 14:29:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is best to wait it out. Telling him now might chase him away. Men are not in tuned to their feelings but we are and he might see it as u trying to trap him so wait until he is ready... don't be in a HURRY to tell him u love him...wait it out
2007-03-20 14:31:46 · answer #8 · answered by Alise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
'love' is such a strong word that's thrown around too often. it's important to tell someone that you love them, if it really is love and not infatuation. see how things go and if there comes an ideal time, say it. it doesn't matter if he doesn't say it back. true love is unselfish.
2007-03-20 14:29:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm with most people on this one. Do wait on those three words for when he says them to you.
2007-03-20 14:31:05 · answer #10 · answered by Holiday 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋