2007-03-20 07:16:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes. I have also had 2 divorces, and I am happily married for the 3rd time. We have been married for 13 years now and things are great. I'm not saying we don't have our differences because we do, but we work through them. I can honestly say that this is the 1st time I feel like I have found true love. I had some trust issues at first, but we have worked through those and all is well. Best wishes!
2007-03-20 08:02:36 · answer #1 · answered by catfan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whether the seperation from a former spouse involves a death or a divorce, it's never easy to 'get back on the horse' so to speak. I wonder the same thing, but have grown comfortable functioning as an independent person with the freedom to do as I please. Love remains in your life through people who play various role, siblings, parents, friends, etc., but the trust and love between two people in a romantic relationship are much trickier. I think it's within the 'realm of possibilities' for there to be love post-divorce. I haven't found it and can't imagine doing so--but I think it's at least possible if someone wanted it badly enough.
2007-03-20 07:24:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's always room for love in your heart if you will allow it. After two divorces, the trust issues are going to be enormous though so perhaps do a little work with yourself to find out why 2 didn't work out before you move on to the next relationship. (And you don't necessarily have to marry the next one, either!)
2007-03-20 07:19:54 · answer #3 · answered by SodaLicious 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is always love. I am sorry to hear that you have had to go through that. I know that it might seem hopeless and I am sure that sometimes you will doubt but there is always love out there. Just make sure that you are trying to find the right kind of man to love. DON'T settle for anything less then what you need, want and deserve!
2007-03-20 07:20:55 · answer #4 · answered by The Voice Of Reason 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have been divorced twice and am now engaged to a wonderful man. He is my childhood sweetheart whom I reunited with 3 years ago. We have a few ups and downs, but more ups than downs. Never have I been happier! There is always hope for love!
2007-03-20 07:20:30 · answer #5 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why wouldn't there be? The number of divorces or relationships you've had has no bearing on if you will find love again, if you are open to doing so.
2007-03-20 07:23:29 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes we just have to stop and look at the men we marry and find someone differnt I married two men that tryed to bet me to death it is hard to trust but i found another man that is nothing like the other two and we are talking about getting married. I wish you luck on the next one just don't rush it it will come to you.
2007-03-20 07:25:08 · answer #7 · answered by redneckwoman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have had two divorces it means you have yet to find REAL love. just that thing called LUST that gets us aLL hot in the pants for a while.
Dont fret, you can still find love out there...but yah looks like you want to be looking for something a little different in the mate you're trying to hook up with.
dont give up, there is more then one perfect match out there you just gotta find it..
2007-03-20 07:23:48 · answer #8 · answered by m34tba11 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YES I hope you will adjust the reasons why you marry, how you behave and expect to be treated after you get married. Its not easy sometimes but you just have to power through it.
2007-03-20 07:19:45 · answer #9 · answered by Devdude 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes!!!! i am on marriage #3 and i am SO in love. i swore to god i would NEVER remarry. i was very content living on my own and my best friend wanted me to meet someone. so she set up a blind date & it was literally love at first sight. we have been together over 4 years & married almost 3 & we are still giddy, silly in love. all of our friend say we make them sick. our kids ask us when we are going to have our first fight. so the answer in most definatly YES!!! and i hope you find it, because it is truly wonderful.
2007-03-20 07:38:16 · answer #10 · answered by tire chick 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋