I understand him so well, and he says the same thing. He's unlike any other boy I've met but I might like another boy too, but he isn't like the guy I'm talking about. Garret (the boy unlike any other) isn't as cute as the other one, but I'm afraid if I go out with him, and we break up we won't talk about what we used to. I'm still not sure if I like him, do I? We don't talk about gossip and stuff, we talk about life. Is that love? Being able to talk about anything? He asked me out and we're 11 and realionships never last, what should I do?
2007-03-20 06:57:15 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What's more important to you? the way he looks? or the way you get a long with the person? What do u want? someone special? or just a cute boy ..but with nothing different that the others? Relationships do last..not all..but they last...u should have more faith..and it depends on u guys how much it lasts..and they way u communicate..so why waste ur chance to be with a boy u get a long with for a boy that only looks good and that s all? :) It's not love yet..but it could be a very beautiful relationship...every true love starts on the solid ground offered by a friendship. good look :)
2007-03-20 07:04:38 · answer #1 · answered by Rebel EXtravaganza 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you are a bit too young to be dating at 11. Take it from my own personal experience:
I met a girl friend (not girlfriend - notice the space) and we became really great friends for over 5 years. Then when I was about 14, I asked her out. It lasted for about 3 months, and then it ended. It also ended our friendship as well.
There's always grudges held after someone breaks up with someone.
Sincerely,
Jessica Kelly
http://easymatch.info
2007-03-20 14:02:19 · answer #2 · answered by Jessica Kelly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you both really like each other then go for it, and love is when you can talk about anything in the world. When you look at him in the eyes and he stares right back and smiles and it feels like nothing in the world could tare you apart then thats love and thats what every girl could dream of, so if that happens then hold onto him cause he's a keeper.
2007-03-20 14:43:03 · answer #3 · answered by Brittany P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relationships consists of five major steps and four elements in attraction.
considering you are eleven, and as you describe, i would say you are simply in the stage of attraction.
just because you can communicate greatly with some1 does not mean it's love or any positive thing. in all realtionships to come, challenges will no doubt sure step in. Your job now is rather then think about relationship, think more about building your friendship FIRST. by building friendship, you build your bond toward him spiritually. As time goes by, it'll become mental, physical and emotional. However all this takes time, and besides, the you two like each other, then have the patience.
focus more on yourselfs and your friendships with each other, and as time goes by in the next few years, will you then understand if you need to bring it to the next level.
don't worry about how others state about break-ups. most happen with bad ends due to impatience to nurture their bond as friends in the early stage, thus as they find out deeper of each other, the bond which isn;t strong is not strong enough to hold you both to accept each other's weaknesses.
so focus on the basics first. Concentrate on helping yourself and your friendship with each other. Don't head to intimacy just because you both think you like each other.
But after all I say, listen or not, (IF NOT), be prepare to face the challenges and the consequenses of your decisions.
2007-03-20 14:43:56 · answer #4 · answered by The Antique Pirate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, remember, you are still very young. Sometimes, it is much better to be friends than to be in a relationship. Give your friendship time and maybe it will continue to grow into a real relationship. Love is when you do have mutual respect and compassion for one another. However, if you rush into love, it is not as gratifying as a solid friendship.
2007-03-20 14:02:21 · answer #5 · answered by love 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not too sure then the answer has to be "no", otherwise you'd know it. Eleven is too young to be concerned about lasting relationships, sorry. You will have plenty of time to find other boys as you mature.
2007-03-20 14:01:12 · answer #6 · answered by SodaLicious 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is love?love never need physic beauty that needs the companion to the mind accepting the thought and sharing the soul and never need to enforce one another.this is love as of me.so you are in love with the Garret.sharing the body is not at all the matter if you really come across the real love.need not to afraid to out just as like as you are really love.YES YOU LIKE HIM
2007-03-20 14:10:01 · answer #7 · answered by nagarajan m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait did you say your 11? I think your still too young to be dating.
2007-03-20 14:00:15 · answer #8 · answered by baby_blue_eyes952002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it def sounds like you like him alot. and its good that you appreciate his depth. but 11 is very young, and your apprehensive about the relationship so i would say just to wait until a better time. hope everything works out for you!
2007-03-20 14:02:19 · answer #9 · answered by Carly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with Garret. You obviously care about him very much.
2007-03-20 14:00:27 · answer #10 · answered by Catherine T 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋