Why do women ask for your help?

Question

Why do women ask for your help when their having a problem and then they start to cry. It makes me feel so bad I want to help but everytime I do she just ends up getting mad at me saying I am not listening and really I am and I want to stop her pain. Any suggestions?

Answer 1

HELP HER ANYWAY. SHE MAY ACT LIKE THAT BUT SHE APPRECIATES IT. TELL HER YOU NEED TO HEAR IT SOMETIME. GOOD LUCK.

Answer 2

We're emotional creatures, we cry...it's in our DNA.

If the person you are referring to always gets angry with you though, then stop trying to help her. If she asks why, let her know that every time you do she just gets angry and falsely accuses you of not listening and so you feel it's better to let her deal with her own issues than use you as a punching bag when all you're trying to do is help.

Answer 3

Tell her how you feel, and on top of that really listen, because sometimes all we need is someone to just listen to us. If you can't find a solution, you tell her everything will come with time, don't worry, Hug her, just be there for her. Good luck

Answer 4

Women are different than men. They don't always need you to solve their problems. In fact most times, they just want you to listen, REALLY LISTEN while they vent about it. We're talkers. Men always need to fix things. Women don't always need that from a man. They just want someone to talk to about things.

Answer 5

Some of us women feel like no guys are listening or understands us. I feel like that some times. women are more emotional then men are. so we women cry easier then guys.

Answer 6

we ask for help from you guys because we feel as if you were our protectors. even though we act as if we don't need you. the reason she cries may depend on the problems, if she does it to often she may just want your attention. when she gets mad at you simply talk to her don't if she rises her voice at you try to stay calm so you don't get things worst and tell her what you just told us. good luck!!!

Answer 7

Dear one what a lovely question to ask and I admire how you are trying to help. I will leave you with this.
The prayer of St. Francis says it best............


Lord, make me an instrument of your peace,
Where there is hatred, let me sow love;
where there is injury, pardon;
where there is doubt, faith;
where there is despair, hope;
where there is darkness, light;
where there is sadness, joy;
O Divine Master, grant that I may not so much seek to be consoled as to console;
to be understood as to understand;
to be loved as to love.
For it is in giving that we receive;
it is in pardoning that we are pardoned;
and it is in dying that we are born to eternal life.

“Forgiveness is the fragrance a violet sheds on the heel that has crushed it”

Answer 8

You can't stop this, you just have to deal with it women are very emotional and we don't have a problem expressing that.

Answer 9

tell her wat you jus told us.