I’ve been with this boy now for about 4 months, but we are always arguing and breaking up. He only ever wants to no me when he wants something, like the other day he never spoke 2 me really all day but then as soon as I told him I had a free house and no-one was in him and his mates came round and stayed the night. I ended up having sex with him, the thing is after we had sex all he said to me was ‘are you bleeding? Quick just get up and go and clean yourself up’ so I did he never spoke 2 me the rest of the night until he rang me when he got home and was like ‘make sure you get the pill in the morning because I think the condom came off and don’t tell anyone what happened, I mean it’ I was just like okay, but the thing is ive been out with him and his mates for the past couple of day after and he still hasn’t said a word to me? infact he hardly ever talks to me, like i said the only time he does talk to me is when Is he using me?
2007-03-20 06:50:42 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Move on. He doens't sound too interested in you.
2007-03-20 06:54:14 · answer #1 · answered by lyzz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him, he sounds a complete loser and you can do better, you deserve respect and he's not showing you any at all, you already know what you should do by the way you have asked this question.
Yes he is using you
he is using your house
he is using your body
he hasn't got a care in the world as long as you "do as your told" and get the morning after pill when he tells you to,
Some men don't talk alot, my bloke doesn't talk much, but he shows me respect and love all the time.
Find someone who likes you and not an ignorant user.
2007-03-20 07:07:40 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What a bloody jerk! Yes he is using you! You need to dump him ASAP! He is not worth the effort, will not change, and will break your heart. He is not nice, in any way. You are worth so much more than that. YOu deserve better. Toss him to the curb and find someone that respects you.
2007-03-20 06:55:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dump him!!!!!!!
I can't believe you have managed to stay with this bloke for 4 months if you can call him a man that is!!!!!!!!!!
You can do without him hun he is just going to drag you down.
Give him a taste of his own medicine, dump him and tell evryone he has got a little willy.
2007-03-20 07:03:56 · answer #4 · answered by laurie d 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move on with a Capital "M" he`s just using you as if you are a lump of meat & there`s no respect in the way he is treating you.
2007-03-20 07:42:15 · answer #5 · answered by edison 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt bother with this lad, if you let him treat you like dirt then thats how hes gonna treat you,move on and mix with people who respect you,after all you said yourself that hes just using you so ditch the dirt.
2007-03-20 07:38:00 · answer #6 · answered by bonnie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry I do feel for you but DUH of course he's using you. Treat em mean keep em keen, ever heard of that expression?
Have a bit more pride in yourself and next time he comes round asking for something tell him to piss off! Don't degrade yourself any further.
2007-03-20 07:10:51 · answer #7 · answered by Bugs 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think he is the sweetest sounding man ever. You'd be a fool to let him go. In fact, why don't you get married straight away. Yes, don't even think twice about it, just do it.
...Sorry for using the word 'think', there. ;-)
2007-03-20 07:27:14 · answer #8 · answered by Oliver T4 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is only one thing a guy wants AND THAT IS TO LOVE YOU, in love i mean sex
2007-03-20 06:58:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you're even wondering this means you know the answer. It's quite clear.
2007-03-20 06:55:42 · answer #10 · answered by B2B2008 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Girl, he's using you like an old towel. Have some self respect and move on!
2007-03-20 06:55:06 · answer #11 · answered by SodaLicious 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋