My boyfriend and i live in NC and his family is scattered everywhere. One of his relatives has a friend that thought my boyfriend was "cute" now all she does is text him. when i've got his phone she goes into detail about how he asks her to talk dirty to him and tells her how much he wants her. I know for a fact this is just not him. I know she is lying. But the fact is i dont want them talking. If she will make up a bs story like that why will she not try and break us up. I am so far head over heals that i've tried everything to stop it without seeming like a controling *****. Now she is messaging his myspace and i see it. so i message her back asking her nicely to stop and she just gets an attitude and keeps it up. He found out last night about me messaging her on his myspace now he is all mad at me. WHAT DO I DO to prove to him that i just dont want this silly girl to ruin everything i've worked so hard for.
2007-03-20 06:48:48 · 7 answers · asked by mare022 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
get in the car and back over the phone.
2007-03-20 06:52:35 · answer #1 · answered by mitymouse30024 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow no you have EVERY right to be upset about that. What a ***** to do that. Your boyfriend, if he turely loves and respects you, should be the one to stop this and if he doesn't I don't think it's going to end. She thinks this a competition and that she's winning, you're doing everything to stop her but she just keeps going. The ONLY person who can get the message across- that he loves you and not her- is HIM! HE has to text/call/message her and say "Enough I have a girlfriend I love very much and I don't want you contacting me anymore". It's best you sit down and tell him how this makes you feel and what you'd like for him to do about it. Good luck!
2007-03-20 06:56:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's feeding his ego, and if he doesn't tell her that her comments/behavior are inappropriate and ask her to stop or block her, then that should speak VOLUMES to you.
You don't need to "prove" anything to him. He's well aware of your feelings toward this other girl, and he's made you aware that he doesn't share them. Sit down and discuss this rationally and ask (don't accuse) him about her communication and doesn't he find it inappropriate...wouldn't he find it inappropriate if some guy was contacting you in that manner?
If he continues to keep in touch with her, then you'll have to decide if it's a dealbreaker or not. Having female friends and exchanging messages is no big deal, but from what you said these are not appropriate at all. If he wants to keep in touch with her so badly, perhaps he'd find it easier to do if he were a single guy.
2007-03-20 06:56:16 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's mad at you then that may mean that there is something going on between them. She is obviously a tramp and you don't need her in your life. But now you need to find out if you want him in your life. Ask him if he has feelings for her point blank. There's nothing wrong with that.
2007-03-20 06:53:28 · answer #4 · answered by #1 Lucy Fan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 11:07:03 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you need to take a stand whether they like it or not and whether they want to call it controlling or not. Your stand would be either/or. Pick either her or me because I am not putting up with this BS.
2007-03-20 06:56:54 · answer #6 · answered by don n 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've already lost this battle of the girlfriends, you just don't know it yet. If he wasn't interested, he wouldn't do it.
Drop him and find someone who appreciates you.
2007-03-20 06:54:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋