2007-03-20 06:44:49 · 13 answers · asked by Bob 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Extramarital relation
2007-03-20 06:52:32 · update #1
For satisfaction.... You need to sit down with your wife and have a discussion of what you find satisfying. If you didn't have a test trial, why would you marry someone you're not sexually compatible with? If you waited til marriage, nothing wrong with that, but now you need to discuss what it is you want and like to do for satisfaction. If she's open to it, that would be good. If she's not then you should respect her wishes, and hope that she comes around. Things can always change, it is a matter of your mate feeling comfortable and secure being with you.
Be very careful how you go about this discussions, sometimes they can backfire on you. Be diplomatic, and be caring about your mates feelings.
Anything outside the marriage, is asking for trouble, no matter how smart or slick you think you are, it always bites people in the behind. Look at other marriages that have failed due to infidelity, and would you mind it it was done to you? I bet it would be a huge blow to your ego, and your emotions as well.
2007-03-20 07:09:37 · answer #1 · answered by grldragon101 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sex is a vital part of the marriage relationship INSIDE the marriage. Sex outside the marriage (as in an extramarital affair) undermines the value of the marriage and is therefore to be avoided.
2007-03-20 07:15:13 · answer #2 · answered by thereligiousrightisneither 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you mean like being intimate with you ex husband after you have already been divorsed. I think that just convinient for whoever does it. You get the pleasure of having sex without the responsibility of the marriage. That is what I call a weak person that is not willing to fight for their marriage. That's why marriages are loosing their meaning now-a-days. I hope and plan to be married until death do us part.
2007-03-20 07:01:57 · answer #3 · answered by MariChelita 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you mean within the marriage, yes it's a vital part of the relationship and creates a bond between husband and wife. It doesn't have to be just for procreation.
If you mean post marital OUTSIDE of the marriage...no.
2007-03-20 06:49:08 · answer #4 · answered by LolaCorolla 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bob, what's up with the constant sex questions? Especially trying to phrase them to sound like you are a foreigner? You would be better off using your imagination to score a relationship with a real person. Give your tiny mind a rest.
2007-03-20 07:37:27 · answer #5 · answered by arkiemom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ofcourse if your only doing it with your spouse...other than that the answer is no.
Lawfully - regular position it's acceptable. Oral is illegal in most states but no one would arrest you unless its in public.
Religiously - Most religions say yes if you are married and it's only with your spouse.
Morally - Ofcourse
2007-03-20 06:55:13 · answer #6 · answered by Jose M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course, provided it is with the person you married and are still married to.
2007-03-20 06:50:24 · answer #7 · answered by dadof7n2001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not only is it morally wrong, but legally it is grounds for divorce. If you cant learn to satisfy your spouse (and help them learn how to satisfy you) then dont bother getting married.
2007-03-20 07:08:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No its not ok to sneak around, but if your wife is ok with it, well go ahead and do what you want I suppose.
2007-03-20 07:59:32 · answer #9 · answered by Foxtrot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you are married, you are supposed to be with that person only for the rest of your life.
2007-03-20 07:27:03 · answer #10 · answered by shelly63795 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋