2007-03-20 06:30:24 · 23 answers · asked by teri d 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow, I feel bad that you have to come out here and ask us what you should do about that holly ,tolly.
If that was someone I was with I would have just kicked his *** to the curb and never though twice about that.
What your going to stay with this guy? Wow look in the mirror, look at yourself you deserve better than being with someone who is just nasty like that.
If you don't believe that, I guess you'll stay with him because you feel that you don't deserve better but trust me you deserve way better.
There is true hearts out there, yes very hard to come by but don't sell yourself short.
Later.
2007-03-20 06:44:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were talking about your husband my answer might be slightly different for various reasons but you are not spiritually or legally conennected to this guy. LEAVE HIM. In no uncertain terms..END THE RELATIONSHIP. At least one person here said to give him a chance to change and do right by you but the truth is that he is putting your life at risk, There is a chance he could repent and stay faithful from now on but the truth is that statistically, that is not likely the case. He is more likely to re-offend and cheat again. Once shoudl be enough.Staying with him is like playing russian roulette. Think about what disease ( possibly life theatening) he could give you from his extra couricular activities. I would go see a doctor and get an HIV test and PAP smear first of all. For every rat you see there are usually several others hiding. You know about ONE time. Who knows how many others there were.If you stay, you could be putting your very life at risk. I know this sounds extreme and fear mongering but it is the truth.It is a shame that women out there still need to ask questions like this.Have some dignity and some self preservation and leave him today.If you have children with this guy then he is not only putting you at risk for aids but he is threatening the life of your kids too.There would have to be ground shaking evidence that he has changed for you to consider taking him back and even then, there would have to be kids involved for it to be a good enough reason.
2007-03-20 06:47:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-02 07:14:57 · answer #3 · answered by signorelli 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you should talk to him about it. Tell him how you feel, ask him why he did it. Try to work it out, try to give him another chance, but warn him if he does it again, you will leave him. If you can't find yourself to be able to trust him or forgive him, break up with him. Even if you care about him and love him, he doesn't seem to love you. If he did, he wouldn't be cheating on you. I have been going through something similar with my bf, only he has been abusing me emotionally. Everyone is telling me that he doesn't love me or he wouldn't treat me that way. It took me a while, but I'm starting to see that now. It's the same with cheating. You deserve a lot better than to be cheated on. Good luck with your situation.
2007-03-20 06:36:41 · answer #4 · answered by Karen 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends. Is he going to stop? If he does, can you forgive him, and would you even still want to be with him? Is this a one time thing, or has he cheated on you with other girls before?
If you can't forgive him, leave. If you're just going to make him feel guilty the rest of his life, leave. If he's going to stop, and you can forgive him, and you want to, stay together.
2007-03-20 06:33:30 · answer #5 · answered by halie_blue 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Consider him a waste of space and get rid of him.
Caught him with his hand in the cookie jar eh? You don't deserve to be treated this way.
2007-03-20 06:41:16 · answer #6 · answered by badkittie2u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick him to the curb! he cheated in you, yes you might love him, but still there better guys out there....so forget him, get ya gladrags on and hit the town and go find someone else x
2007-03-20 06:33:15 · answer #7 · answered by NoName 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If that's the case, he should be your X boyfriend. Since he apparantly seeks the company of another. You dont need his type.
2007-03-20 06:33:21 · answer #8 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Best answer is to move on. Find someone who will treat you well. Anything else is pointless, like revenge or reconciliation.
2007-03-20 06:33:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave him; but not before you tell him in no uncertain terms what a scumbag he is.
2007-03-20 06:34:20 · answer #10 · answered by Catherine T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋