Help me out ladies!
I see them all the time. Huge jerks who mistreat, abuse, and seem to deep down hate females. Yet they always have women companions!
2007-03-20 06:25:57 · 25 answers · asked by Bob 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm still trying to figured this out to man !!!. I guess women want the alpha male..a man's man ..someone to but boot to *** and not a romantic gentalmen they clam to want in a man.
I have gotten that from every chick I ever liked. " Your such a great person" " a gentalman" "a Nice guy" ...and it's always the same..they never want me. And I just can't turn myself in to oe of these asshole ,mancho men. It's not me and would go against my nature.
So when you find this out tell me too man. I'm in the same boat you are.
2007-03-20 06:33:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I myself don't make the first move because....well, that's not how I am. Plus, it doesn't help that I'm shy around the opposite sex. I'm old-fashioned and still think guys should make the first move. Sometimes when I think a guy is cute, I do drop hints like make eye contact and lock eyes with a flirtacious smile, but I do it in a friendly way just so I don't appear like an easy target (if you know what I mean). I don't want to give them the wrong impression either. Yes, I'm afraid of rejection. But my advice to you is this, you've got nothing to lose if you approach women. I'm very flattered when men give me attention, whether they're good looking or not. A woman should feel flattered when a man approaches her because it means she's good looking and attractive. It's sort of a compliment. She doesn't have to like him back, but can be friendly. If she does end up being interested in him, then wonderful. Men, you have nothing to lose. So what if she's not interested? It's her loss, right?
2016-03-29 08:40:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Argh! evil men always seem to get the better of women! But if the girl is actually looking for somebody special, to settle down with or just to be a good friend etc. then eventually they 'see the light!' and go for the nice guys. But if the girl genuinly wants to be with the jerk, then i doubt she's worth your time (at the time). Different types of girls go for different guys......I don't know! It's just a guess......but good guys get my vote first.
2007-03-20 06:32:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Women see what we want to see initially. Sometimes a guy might show all the signs of being a jerk from the door but we chose to ignore certain things. In my experience, nice guys are great boyfriends that I know would make wonderful husbands but when you're young sometimes you want to see what else is out there. Many women complain that nice guys are push-overs, or boring.
2007-03-20 06:34:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think some women don't want to be burdened with an overly emotional partner and think the "bad" guys are less of a burden. Then they grow up an realize the "bad" guys are even more wussy than the "good" guys.
2007-03-20 06:29:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't even know myself, cheated on bf with this HORRIBLE man, who was only interested in THAT and nothing else. Few days ago he hurled abusive words at me, scolding me for not doing what he told me to. I ran back to bf, of course bf doesn't have any clue what's going on. A day later, this jerk came back and I willingly surrendered and we got back again. And hours ago, jerk did the same thing again and I'm just dying to go back to my bf. My bf is someone who respects women, is everything that I want at the end of the day, but for now thrill is what I want. So I guess you are the sort of guy who will win in the end, because at the end of the day you are the one whom girls will go for. So just be patient, the day will come. ;-)
2007-03-20 06:48:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think every girl is looking for that bad boy who's got a really sweet side to them behind closed doors. I'm gonna be honest in saying, some guys are TOO nice and it's a huge turn off.
2007-03-20 06:29:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
It's because you're too darn eager and lack self-confidence, not because the men they are going out with are jerks. At least the jerks are self-confident and a bit of a challenge.
Stop letting women turn you into their servant and learn to be a confident, self-assertive, charming male. Stop trying so hard to please them. The ones that want you to jump through hoops will never treat you well anyway.
2007-03-20 06:30:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Why is men attracted to "bad" females that goes around in "mini" everything to get you to sleep with them and they just end up taking and spending all your money and using you, instead of choosing a "nice" female like me who respect males?
2007-03-20 06:33:01 · answer #9 · answered by simplypeachy06 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
First those are the women who are insecure and believe that they need someone cruel to protect them... they are stupid. You are the type of guy that a girl dreams of when they realize what they're worth. So don't give up its a smart girl out there who's looking you just have to spot her!
2007-03-20 06:30:13 · answer #10 · answered by Raven P 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋