I have a best friend who went behind her husbands back and joined my husband and I in the bedroom. She then wanted us to join her husband and her in their bedroom. I did not really want to because I am not attracted to her husband, but I did so just for the experience. Now everytime we are all partying together, all she wants to do is talk about us all being together again. We have 2 other couples that want to join in and just have one big "party". I am not sure if i am ok with that. I love the 3some aspect of it m/f/f, and my husband loves it all. I dont want this to ruin our friendship so we just keep doing our "things" together. Should i just shut my mouth and keep doing it, or should i speak up?
2007-03-20 06:20:47 · 16 answers · asked by troys wife 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
speak up and if she is a true frien she will understand :) :) :)
2007-03-20 06:24:44 · answer #1 · answered by angle f 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to just "shut your mouth and keep doing it" if it makes you feel uncomfortable? You are in control of your own body and what you choose (or choose not) to do with it! I would suggest you follow your instincts and refrain from doing anything you might regret later on. Peer pressure has no place in the bedroom. Just because you tried something doesn't mean you have to keep on doing it. If you let what others may say or think influence you that much, you'll regret it later on, and you may even reach a point where you feel bitter towards the others involved. Be true to yourself and do only what feels right for you to do. That's self-respect.
2007-03-20 06:29:58 · answer #2 · answered by It's Ms. Fusion if you're Nasty! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
those group things are fun
but if u r not attract to the hubby
then i will not let her know that
just tell her that u r taking a break from it
that u have done too much in the time bein
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2007-03-20 06:26:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you people are crazy! But since you did 3 some anyway , why not just have one big sex party. Whats the big deal now?
2007-03-20 06:25:23 · answer #4 · answered by Mammamia3 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it if you are not comfortable with it...the best thing to do is place limits like numbers in the bed, number of times per week...and just say that you have other priorities....otherise it will get out of hand and then your marriage could suffer...
Your body, your rules...
2007-03-20 06:26:48 · answer #5 · answered by Mikey ~ The Defender of Myrth 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Aww, how come I dont know people like this !!
To answer your question, it is the majority of people that want the FFM (both males and females). I think you really need to make this clear.
2007-03-20 06:31:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
speak up and let them know how you feel because in the long run it could get much worse. i believe a love between a husband and wife should stay between just the 2 . they always become much problems latter between all in voled
2007-03-20 06:26:44 · answer #7 · answered by fancey 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should only do something that feels right to you. It doesn't matte what other people want or think. If you feel o.k. with it, do it. If not, don't do it. You listen to your inner voice and don't be swayed by anyone else.
2007-03-20 06:24:59 · answer #8 · answered by K L 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
speak up, because this will tuin u emotionally, mentally and it might ruin ur relationship with ur husband. and this g.f of urs needs to chill out.
2007-03-20 06:24:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if your not comfortable with a situation then speak up and voice your opinion
2007-03-20 06:24:11 · answer #10 · answered by sylviavnpttn 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
got room for another stud in the mix?
2007-03-20 06:26:06 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋