he has cheated on me in the past but he will only admit to some of the incidents that occurred but he says he wants to marry me and that he is sorry for that one thing that he did (when in reality i know everything that he has done) will he change ? should i stay with him and give him another chance? i have been with him for a long time and honestly never knew until now. what should i do
2007-03-20 06:05:27 · 8 answers · asked by jesslopez 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No. Lose him and for God's sake.... SPACEBAR
2007-03-20 06:09:16 · answer #1 · answered by mikey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st time the fault is his, 2nd time the fault is yours. Cheaters always cheat. I am not talking about someone who strays once or has a brief fling, I am talking about the ones who do this person, then that one, then that one. So if you marry him, it will not keep him faithful, because obviously he doesn't love you in the way he is supposed to. I would call it quits and start looking for a guy about 5-10 years older who is nearer your maturity level. BTW, if you do marry him, it is going to destroy you when you find out about the other women, except now you are stuck in marriage and have to jump through hoops to get a divorce and he can make it last a long time.
2007-03-20 13:13:08 · answer #2 · answered by raiderking69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once you have a commited relationship there should be no cheating EVER. If it happens it is no longer commited but some things are omitted. Marriage will not infuse fidelity into a person. I sounds like you have doubts and if that is the case, would you want to worry about it all the time? Ultimately, the choice is yours but you should think twice or three times about it.
2007-03-20 13:14:14 · answer #3 · answered by jimmer256 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Noifyoustaywithhimyou aremorethendumb. Ifyouletusdoitoncewe Willdoitagain
2007-03-20 13:16:52 · answer #4 · answered by PrimEvil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!!are you crazy. Sweetie it's going to happen throughout your entire life if you stay with him. Dump him and get someone who cares about you to settle down with.
2007-03-20 13:32:38 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he wants to he can change --- i think most guys dont want to change --- if you believe he will change and you both care for each other then see if it can work --- i suspect as he has not told you the truth he will do it again --- he does not want to change ---- im sorry and best wishes
2007-03-20 13:13:20 · answer #6 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not marry this guy. think with ur brain not ur heart on this one!!!
u know u deserve better.
2007-03-20 13:10:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him. He will not change
2007-03-20 13:09:32 · answer #8 · answered by Catherine T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋