Can I please skip life and go on to heaven?

Question

My life is so miserable, my boss yelled at me, yesterday for building a decent wall, and he yelled at me for 15 minutes, and it was only my first day on a new shift, that I didn't want. I have to go to work at 5:15 p.m. I have no money, and I have nothing.

I am in $15,000 in debt, from cell phone bill, and credit card debt, and going to Chicago State University, and they are suing me for the money.

The internet don't work at home, and my dad yelled at me all the time, and the worst part I can't even see my face, I have no clue to find out what my face really looks like.

I am suffering people, and it is time for me to move on, and I am going to be homeless next year. There is no reason for me to live, none whatsoever.

Can someone tell me what my face looks like to them?

I work at UPS, as a package handler buildings walls into trailers. My new boss yelled at me for 15 minutes, and he watched me load the truck.

Answer 1

You can't skip life. Your life has meaning. How you handle your situations here is how you'll be rewarded there. Don't throw all your blessings away.
Give your problems over to God.
Rest in the Lord, have faith that he'll get you through this!
I'll pray for you.

Answer 2

Bosses yell, it is their job. Sometimes we want to vent (maybe your boss was venting even if you did do a good job). The thing is not to take things personal. He probably doesn't like training newbies, I really hate training. LOL $15,000 is not a lot. You can work with creditors and pay less than you owe. My sister was 30,000 in debt and now she is almost done paying it off. Work with people and they will work with you. As far as your pops yelling, you should save up to move out if it is really bad. I doubt you will be homeless. If you have family that cares about you, they will not throw you on the streets regardless of threats. Maybe you can dorm at school. The fact that you are going to a University is pretty cool. Some people don't work and don't even go to school and mooch off their parents. Your face, looks to me a little confused..but with a sign of hope. Don't give up, it's just a bad day.

Answer 3

There are a few ways to look at this; one way is "poor me", the way your looking at it now, and then there is reality. Your making mistakes left and right and people are getting pissed or disapointed in you; you say your boss yells and your dad yells.....that means something. My guess is that others may not treat you as you wish, am I right?

Your cell bill say something about you also, your irresponsibsle, are you? Did you have any clue that your were ringinmg up $15000 in cell bills?

The "poor me" thing does not work for anyone, you don't even beleive it, do you? You did all this to yourself and nobody else is responsible.

The religious types will tell you not to sin, you yourself want to "go to heaven"; wise up and grow up. Stop being a pansy assed weak linked tit sucking baby; be a man dammit.

I'd guess your about 20 , going to a University, working for UPS; ****, at your age I was carrying a ruck-sack in the jungle in Southeast Asia for my beloved Corps and you think you have issues as your godamn internet does not work and you owe $15000?????!!!!

If your smart you'll grow up and this is how your going to do it maggot: you will stop crying in your ******* corn-flakes, you will join my beloved Marine Corps and God willing you may be a rifleman and earn some self respect; your smart enough to get a UPS job working for a limp dick panty waist boss who thinks yelling for not stacking cardboard boxes makes him manly....if you really want to get yelled at for a damn good reason, my Beloved Corps has seasoned drill Instructors that will turn your sorry maggot assed pussy whipped boy into a Marine Rifleman; there is no better way to die on this Planet...or you can be a pussy and cry about the problems you alone created.Everyone dies, everyone, choose at least how you can do this with some fuicking dignity and honor, get motivated and serve the Corps and stop asking for everything....Ohhhhrah

Answer 4

Yah these are all problems that will pass.

Your life is miserable because you say it is. Stop moping for yourself. You have to think that you are going to make it better.

Apparently you can eat, and you have a roof over your head. That sounds pretty good to me.

And nobody gets to yell at you for 15 minutes, report that man to UPS for being an abusive boss, or get a new job. There are tons of jobs in Chicago.

And the public library has the internet.

If you want your life to get better, work 2 jobs and support yourself to live on your own.

I'm at least $50, 000 in debt. But I just have to keep on moving forward and being positive. Because moping about it and being hopeless is just going to make me miserable.

YOU are responsible for your existance and no one else. God doesn't like quitters.

And why cant you see your face?

Answer 5

I am so sorry you feel so bad! Sometimes it seems like there is no bright place. You sound young (by the college comment, i hope I am not wrong). It always seems worse when you are younger. It takes a while to get yourself together.

You sound like a child of God..lean on Him, pray to Him...He will show you the answers. He doesnt want you to give up! You have a purpose, you just havent found it yet!

I am praying for you!!

Ps, if you really get to the point you think you are going to hurt yourself, call someone...go to the hospital, or call 911! Death is permanent and these problems will pass!

Answer 6

You look like a happy face turned up side down .In the bible in Collossians 3:17 " And whatsoever ye do in the word or deed, do all in the name of the Lord Jesus,giving thanks to god and the father by him". I know life is heartless and evil ....Have you ever tried seeking out the Lord ? Go to a bible believing church and hear the word of God , maybe he will turn you around and give you the wisdom and strength to get through these times.

Answer 7

I am sorry for your suffering, but no you can not skip life and go to heaven. Remember, Job suffered in order to be tested, Jesus suffered the cross, and died, in order that you may be saved, and the saints (followers of Christ) suffered and died so that the message of Christ may be shared to the world. Place your full faith and trust in Jesus Christ and He will never give you more then you can handle, I will pray for you, that you may be strengthened in the time of your suffering.

I see someone who is made in the image of God, I see someone who is struggling with life and needs Christ to help, remember, sorrow may last through the night, but joy comes in the mourning.

Answer 8

Jam 1:2 Consider it all joy, my brethren, when you encounter various trials,
Jam 1:3 knowing that the testing of your faith produces endurance.


Understand this, we must have trials and hardship to strengthen us, cause without them we become weak.

Think about this, when we have everything go our way, we don't see a need for God, sometimes it is said, "why do I need God for?" when I have everything I need?
This is one of the reasons (but not the only one) God allows suffering
The trials and tribulations make us strong, think of it like this, when you work out in a Gym, your muscles get stronger, better, but when you just lie around like a couch potato, you get weak.

Trials makes us strong in the same way, we must have obstacles to overcome, without them we become weak and die.

Consider this verse:

Rev 3:5 "He who overcomes shall be clothed in white garments, and I will not blot out his name from the Book of Life; but I will confess his name before My Father and before His angels.

Answer 9

...slow down, relax a bit... you have a job...? ummm,,, you have a place to live...? ummm... did you eat today...? have a place to rest tonight... ummm ? take the time to re-start your life... God allows U-turns !!!! take it slowly and take it easy... find a good Spirit filled mentor... someone who ill tech you about God... a good non-demonational Church that teaches Jesus Christ and His righteousness... learn Gods Word... not "religious" gymnastics... begin to ask God for help... ask Him !!! and begin to work out the "stuff" in your life...a budget a pay back system... don't worry about the law suits... just get you life together... at work... give them the time for your pay... working for UPS is a good job... but soon, become accountable to a good Spiritual authority... its so very important... and ask God for help... you are His son !!!

Answer 10

You should go work at IPS, with Doug Heffernon aka the king of queens...that would be like a little slice of heaven