I think I figured out why a former friend of mine at work told me that I was weird and that we should ignore each other. I think he wants me for you know. We had joked about it b4 and talked about it, but never did it since he has a gf/fiancee overseas, whom he hasn't seen in about two years. The problem is that there is tension between us that is pretty strong. I feel it and I now he does too. The thing is I'm afraid people at work suspect there is something going on between us since we don't talk and I want these feelings to go away.
2007-03-20 05:18:27 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Either lay everything out on the table or do what he asked and ignore him. Do you want to be with him? Well, as you said, he already has someone... he's taken. Move on girl, find yourself someone who wants you because in this current situation you are going to get hurt. Forget about the people at work because they are nosy... do what you have to do there and move on to the next guy. In time, you will get over it.
2007-03-20 05:29:00 · answer #1 · answered by Cambrianna S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you do, don't act on those feelings. Then you'll REALLY have problems getting rid of them. I learned that one the hard way.
I guess it's hard to forget someone you see almost everyday. In the end, you just have to want to let him go. Try not to dwell on thoughts of him so much. If those thoughts come up, do something else to occupy your mind. If you're a praying person, pray for a change of mind.
2007-03-20 12:24:18 · answer #2 · answered by kevness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋