i am 15 she is 26 we didnt want to seperate but teh age was cousing her paronoia... what should i do?
2007-03-20 05:07:53 · 13 answers · asked by Andrew M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well we have broken up but have not moved on.......
2007-03-20 06:49:14 · update #1
11 years is way to old for you considering you are 15! iF YOU WERE 30 AND she WAS 41 THAT WOULD BE A DIFFERENT STORY. SHE COULD GO TO JAIL FOR SEEING YOU!
2007-03-20 05:14:13 · answer #1 · answered by Amy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To begin with, yes, 11 years older is definitely too old for you at your youthful age of 15 years. If you were at least the age of 20 years, then I would say, "go for it, whatever makes you happy." (as long as you both were happy, of course).
It may be hard for you to understand this now, and it may seem like the end of the world, but "this too shall pass", "time really does help all", and you will look back and understand things better, I promise. Not to mention preventing your friend from getting into a whole lot of legal trouble, that is inevitable to happen.(as the law is really cracking down on these types of relationships)(your friend has all rights to be and should be paranoid about this).
If at all possible, just remain strictly friends, and if it was meant to be then it can be in just a few more years. Anything Good, is definitely worth waiting for. Just remember that if you were to get caught and her go to jail, then there most likely would never be a future for you and her together. Wish you all the best. And hope I've helped in some kind of way.
2007-03-20 07:17:37 · answer #2 · answered by priscillak201 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Today most people are not the same age. my grandma and grandpa were 12 years apart and they never separted they were happy until one deceased. All that matters is that you both love each other and as long as you to do then your love sholud survive anything life throws your way. Im guessing your mature since she is dating you........good luck and AGE DOES NOT MATTER
2007-03-20 05:20:49 · answer #3 · answered by Sheri M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait three years
2007-03-20 05:12:01 · answer #4 · answered by Village Player 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whoaaw. I mean ... wow. wait a couple of years until you're legal. I mean there's not much to say. Well to answer your initial question, what do you think? I mean it's all up to you.
2007-03-20 05:15:06 · answer #5 · answered by RC 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seriously - end that relationship. You're much better off with girls your own age!
2007-03-20 05:13:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude that is wrong. tell her to get some help. she needs to be with guys more her age man. not that its too old for you, but its too young for her.
2007-03-20 05:16:45 · answer #7 · answered by Danny S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jail bait, she will find herself locked down if you continue to date her. Bad Idea
2007-03-20 05:12:02 · answer #8 · answered by NolaDawn 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell her you love her and nothing can stop your love, tell her to calm down and take a chill pill
2007-03-20 05:38:10 · answer #9 · answered by smash_mouth_man2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
holy sh!t, and there I was, thinking that 2 years difference between me and my bf is too much!!!
2007-03-20 05:15:03 · answer #10 · answered by sea_star 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋