I am 52, my new bride to be is 21. I was having a affair with her before my devorce, My wife was also having a affair with another man. My three kids are older than my bride to be. Right now no one knows of our plans. We are great in bed together and love each other very much.She still lives with her mom who is a good friend of my family. Her mom doesn't know about us yet. I thiunk she will really be hurt. We plan to move to another part of the state. What do you see in store for us?
2007-03-20 05:07:03 · 7 answers · asked by muddylittlehotel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Racer 51 and beebs gave you the answer that I was going to give. They are both right about what you have in store for you. At 52 I would expect to see a much more mature man in you than what I do. You are thinking with the wrong head and you are fixing to mess up a young ladies life and hurt alot of people along the way. Is that what you really want? I don't think so. I think you are enjoying the bedroom tactics and not thinking about what happens when the new wears off and all the other stuff thats goes on in a relationship. Don't lose your self respect and that of others. Be smart and step to the side and give this young lady her freedom.
2007-03-20 18:06:36 · answer #1 · answered by Jerry 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think it's gonna be pretty hard at first. lots of hurt feelings. moving a 21yr old to far from her family may not be the best idea.even in the best marriages a woman needs her mom close by. you may have an issue with your kids too. kind of wierd having a step-mom younger than you are. could be accusations of gold digging.
if you really love each other and want to be together, give it your all just be prepared for a little fall out.
2007-03-20 12:17:13 · answer #2 · answered by racer 51 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the fact that you are asking this in multiple catagories, shows that YOU have doubts about it to begin with. She is TOO YOUNG, not only for you, but for ANY serious relationship. You will RUIN HER life if you marry her. Dont fool yourself. Grow up, let her find someone her own age. Furthermore, if she cheated WITH you, she will cheat ON you. You both lack integrity and character.
2007-03-20 12:19:53 · answer #3 · answered by beebs 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember to always put your family first including your soon to be wife. Dont hide, dont lie, you know dis.... tell her! Dont live a secret life.
2007-03-20 12:24:11 · answer #4 · answered by Blax 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jerry springer! or maury, but either way, just wait till u get to know each other more, she's 21 and she does not know what she wants
2007-03-20 12:16:16 · answer #5 · answered by sourgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the family might disown u.
2007-03-20 12:12:24 · answer #6 · answered by lisaanndubay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PAIN AND HEARTACHE FOR YOUR KIDS AND THE REST OF YOUR FAMILY...SORRY!!!
2007-03-20 12:10:40 · answer #7 · answered by lovemuffin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋