I did a search on my boyfriends email name and came up with a list (mostly from ebay which I know are his) but also came up with a profile on a p o r n site. I'm strongly against p o r n o g r a p h y. Do you think this profile on the p o r n site is his? or not? What should I do?
2007-03-20 04:56:18 · 21 answers · asked by DebChick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It could be, you just have to ask him.
2007-03-20 04:58:42 · answer #1 · answered by Jeremiah's Mommy 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it depends on the email name... is it common, or is it very unique and unusual? If the latter, then your BF has a profile on a porn site. You can do one of two things. Anonymously contact him, using a fake profile on that same web site, and see how your BF responds, if in fact it is him.
The other option is to flat out ask him. Females are very adept in determining when a man is lying.
Good luck, and let us know what happens.
2007-03-20 05:00:48 · answer #2 · answered by Jack Chedeville 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel like you do...Pornography is an evil thing. There is nothing beautiful about it. It causes problems in marriages, can lead to affairs, divorce and ruins families, not to mention some rape and incest. I have had an experience where someone I loved was looking at it. Click on history and see what comes up. It probably was his. I don't see how it would get mixed up in his stuff if he wasn't looking at it. Just ask him straight up to tell you the truth. Make sure he knows that you have strong convictions on this subject. Seriously... an addiction to that stuff is hard to cure. I know... speaking from experience, this is an on going issue with a loved family member of mine. His wife is hurt, the kid's are hurt and it led to an affair. The trust thing is always in the back of her head!
2007-03-20 05:07:11 · answer #3 · answered by Amy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Read the profile and see if you can recognize any of his characteristics or possible login names he might use. But even if he is, there is nothing wrong with pornography and that he has a profile on a porn site is far from uncommon. He probably has many profiles on many such sites, as do most men who use the internet.
2007-03-20 04:59:31 · answer #4 · answered by thingfishy 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2014-09-15 14:16:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
See if you confront him then he will ask you why you were searching his email name and probably get defensive and tell you that you don't trust him. You could look on the site and see if it is really him , but you know that it will change your relationship forever or you could just drop it and not bring it up. Alot of guys look at p o r n, what you could do is look at p o r n with him, make it a couple thing.
2007-03-20 05:05:22 · answer #7 · answered by Lost in a Relationship 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Right im im not sure how much money you would be willing to spend and if you could get access to his pc for awhile but its possible to buy LEGAL programs that can monitor what people go on, view what they have viewed and even see what they've been saying on the internet or even in msn/yahoo etc. Im not that familiar with them but if you could get one and install it on his pc then you can see from another pc what he is doing/has been up to.
2007-03-21 11:01:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, all user names have to be unique or they won't work well. Maybe he was in p o r n but quit.
If you are that strongly aganist p o r n, then you already know what to do.
2007-03-20 05:02:10 · answer #9 · answered by sunshine23511 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get him to promise to stay off the site. He is just a man and easily susceptible to such things, this is how men are.
2007-03-20 05:01:11 · answer #10 · answered by dad 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I don't know and you don't know either
but what i do know is that you are evading his
privacy..if it was your husband..then ok
but a boyfriend? please..he is a big boy and
if you ask him and he says no then let it go as you
have no proof..but if he say yes i like porn..then
you may have an issue with him
its all about trust..if there is no trust..then you
have nothing
2007-03-20 05:00:57 · answer #11 · answered by Louella R 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋