Why Won't my BF make love to me anymore?

Answer 1

You haven't given any kind of information that could determine the EXACT reason but, I think I can help you figure this out. There may be one of several or many causes for his abstinence with you. The most common reasons why a man resfuses to make love to his lover, more often than not, has nothing to do with his girlfriend at all. Here are just some of the most likely reasons:
1.) Fatigue
2.) Stress
3.) Tired
4.) Low testosterone level
5.) Illness
6.) Lack of "good" opportunity
7.) Lack of time
8.) Too otherwise pre-occupied
9.) Unresolved financial, work, family, relationship, issues. 10.) Temporary disinterest.
11.) Lack of confidence in his performance for you
12.)Your relationship is slipping away
13.) Lack of sexual interest in you
14.) Your pressuring him too much about it
15.) He may be interested/having sex with another
16.) His refusal to make love to you might be what he feels is an easy way of telling you that the relationship may be over.

Only you can determine which of these likely, causes is/are responsible for his neglecting to satisfy your needs sexually. It may be a combination of these reasons. Sure, it could be one of the innocent and fleeting reasons.... or it could be a lasting and more serious one. Your best approach to resolving your question about this problem is to have a one-on-one, sincere and amicable conversation about this with HIM. Tell your B/F that you are prepared to be civil about his reply no matter what answer he gives you. Let him know that you need absolute honesty from him. Tell him that you will be okay with whatever answer that he will, once and for all, give you. Assure him that you will respect him for being truthful. Let him know that this issue is important to you because you are capable of, and want to, give him whatever it is that he needs/doesn't need from you. Chances are, with this approach, you won't upset him, instead, you will get his attention and his honest answer. Good or bad, accept his reason, keep your word to him and act accordingly. Let's hope it's a reason that you can accept more easily, like stess for instance. If it is, be supportive of him right now and just give the subject of making love a rest for a little while. It may pay off for you later! Good luck

Answer 2

Are you just waiting for him? Maybe he wants to feel loved as well? Lets assume he's not cheating and the relationship is still holding.

You take the initiative. Put on something cute. Not sexy, just cute and go to him when he is not preoccupied. Give him sweet kisses and start doing something that used to drive him crazy. You need to remind him what sex with you is like.

When it's over don't let that be the end of it. Do some other nice things for him. This will show him you care and again remind him why he is dating you. Sounds like you two might just be in a slump.

Answer 3

he's probaly not interested anymore. look ask him do he love u or still have feelings 4 u to his face while he's doing something and if he don't look at u and say yeah he's lying his @$$ off
( u should put more detail )

Answer 4

He may be cheating on you, he may be bored with you guys or he may just not be into it right now... I don't know sweetie... I have had it too and thats when it was over because he and I both were bored and didn't want each other anymore....

Answer 5

He might be cheating..stressed or u have B.O..or he doesnt find u attractive anymore.

Answer 6

He might get tired of you.He might even be cheating on you.YOU need to check up on him or drop him like he's hot.

Answer 7

Oh Megan, poor child....come hither.

Don't abuse yourself so much.

Answer 8

becuz he's creeping

Answer 9

He knows that after you've tasted me, you will never want him again.

Answer 10

You need a black willy.