It really depends on what happened. But the best thing you can do is not talk about it all the time. That is really annoying and it will not further your cause. Better, start trying to behave responsibly. Clean your room, do your homework, come home on time, treat your parents with respect. Then, once you have demonstrated respect for the rules, have a heart to heart with your parents. Work out a deal. Maybe you promise that you'll adhere to an earlier curfew if you are with him. If he comes to the house, you will stick to the living room or kitchen. Or maybe you can promise that you will only see him when you are out in groups. If you can sincerely demonstrate that you understand that they love you and only want your best interests, they will be more likely to listen to you. As my dad used to say to me, if you want to be treated like an adult, you have to act like one.
2007-03-20 05:04:44
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answered by Sharon M 6
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well--it depends how old you are yes--and on what happened..Why don't your parents want you to see this guy?...parents are usually looking out for their kids--One question you should ask yourself is this: If you were a parent--would you want your daughter dating a guy like your boyfriend? And if you say No--but in my case this is different or he is special etc--no honey-- it is not different or special--That first No in your mind--that is the right answer--Even if it seems like he is the only one--You should trust your parents--I know many people who tried to just do their own thing thinking they had found true love--only to discover--much heartache and many wasted years later--that their parents were right all along--be glad that your parents are looking out for you--so many kids these days have parents who could care less what they do--You are one of the lucky ones...good Luck--and Be Smart--your parents can ony guide you--You have to be smart enough to follow the right advice...
2007-03-20 12:22:51
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answered by Shay 4
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Usually if your parents say you cant see him there is a good reason. I look back and i am glad my parents kept some losers from me, You are too young to see a boy for what they really are. Trust your parents, They have whats best in mind for you. If they wont let you see him its not because they want their daughter mad at them, Its because they know better than you do.
2007-03-20 11:48:23
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answered by gsxr650 3
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Well why don't they want you to see him? I'm sure there is something they saw and didn't like, therefore not wanting you around him. My mom forbid me to see a guy i was dating when i was 14, I just "loved" him so much i couldn't see him for what he really was. After i didn't see him for a month i realized how awful he really was, i thanked her very much for keeping me away from him. I hate to think how bad my life would have been if she hadn't of done this for me. I know it wasn't what you wanted to hear but they are just looking out for you. It may seem unfair now but later on you will find yourself thanking them later down the road.
2007-03-20 12:02:22
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answered by sarah 5
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Turn 18 and move out of the house... that's one way.
2007-03-20 12:37:02
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answered by Anonymous
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How old are you?
Why don't they want you to see him did something happen?
2007-03-20 11:47:57
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answered by Gypsy 3
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Act responsibly when you are with him and apart.
2007-03-20 11:47:47
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answered by QueenBean 5
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sweetie that really depends on how old you are
2007-03-20 11:46:34
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answered by Sunshine 5
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DEPENDS WHAT HAPPENED
2007-03-20 11:46:30
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answered by x0x0sara0x0x 3
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