do you think i should go back out w/ the guy who cheated on me, but still cares 4 me and i still love him? he broke up w/ his g/f s and said he was done cheating. i regret me telling him it was over.
2007-03-20 04:42:00 · 17 answers · asked by moon_stars_fury 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
GOOD QUESTION. I would jus take it slow w/ him and let him show u that he is ready not 2 go back and do what he did in the 1st place. If he then shows u that he really wants to be with u then go on and take that step into having a relationship again. He has to build back up his trust b/c there is still doubt or distrust in your heart. But u defiently have 2 forgive him 1st or u'll always think he ain't doin what he says he's doin or he's cheatin. GOOD LUCK
2007-03-20 04:58:56 · answer #1 · answered by Nique 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As the old saying goes "Once a cheater, always a cheater". I won't go into the details of what happened with me. I don't know what all happened with you, but just keep in mind that he has done it once. What happens if he cheats on you again?
2007-03-20 11:48:18 · answer #2 · answered by phoenix_02_17 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he did still cared for you he wouldn't have done it in the first place...
He sounds like a guy whom he is immature or inexperienced to even value love...yes he needs to learn this and the only way he will learn this is ..you have to let him go....if you bring him back ..what makes you think he won't do it again?
2007-03-20 11:47:37 · answer #3 · answered by Lone Knight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't go back out with him. if he cared about u he wouldn't have cheated in the first place. the only reason that he wanted u back is cuz he didn't know what he had until u were gone. it was his loss. just remember that.
2007-03-20 11:50:09 · answer #4 · answered by Emy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea cause i made the mistake of cheating and never got that 2nd chance but i wish i had b/c the girl i had cheated on i really liked and evry day i regret doing it..
so he should get that 2nd chance
2007-03-20 11:47:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont go back.,....once a cheater always a cheater...trust me ...been there done that....my ex said the same thing to me....after the third time i caught him cheating i left him and met a wonderful guy and i couldnt be happier...i think you should move on...trust me you will be happier if you do not go back and move on
2007-03-20 11:46:23 · answer #6 · answered by fcukn princess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you regret your decision, forgive him for what he has done, and he says he won't again and that he broke all his relations off ...
Go for it. Second chances are good sometimes. We all mistakes, and maybe now it can be better that he has learned from his (if he has, I hope for your sake he has.)
2007-03-20 11:46:21 · answer #7 · answered by ♦ Tiff ♦ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no hunny once a cheater always a cheater. you may love him but he does not truly care for you if hes doing that. or did that. don't let your self get hurt. but really all you can do is follow your heart
2007-03-20 11:46:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you believe he won't cheat again? That will be the same answer.
2007-03-20 11:48:38 · answer #9 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once a cheater always a cheater
there is an old saying a hard c##k has no conscience
2007-03-20 11:46:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋