Would you care about whether or not your future wife's a virgin and would go without until your wedding night if your "one",the girl you're marrying, didn't believe in pre-marital sex?
2007-03-20 04:40:05 · 20 answers · asked by Macy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wouldn't care if she was a virgin or not... but would insist on pre-marital sex... and living with her too...
2007-03-20 04:44:17 · answer #1 · answered by Forlorn Hope - returned 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would actually prefer my wife to be a virgin. This way she won't compare me to the other guys she's been with and she's not as desensitized, she'll actually appreciate sex with me lot more after we're married. I'd be pretty flattered as well since I'll be the only guy that she'll be sleeping with ;)
I could gladly wait for my wedding night to sleep with my wife because there are many ways to get around sexual frustration that don't involve a sex partner.
I would prefer a virgin, but if my future spouse isn't, I'll still be cool with it. It's really how she feels about me that matters the most.
2007-03-21 18:51:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
To have to ask yourself one question and that question is do you love her? If the true answer is yes then you will respect her wishes. Sex is great but it also has it’s downfalls as all good things do. I would wait for my wedding night if my future wife asked me to. Think of all the fun you can have on that night. Killing yourself to make up for all you did not get. Lol.
2007-03-20 11:54:39 · answer #3 · answered by Mike's D One 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in this situation thru high school, I dated her for 4 yrs and I respected her decision...However, It created allot of problems for me. It seems like I "obsessed" on getting in her pants all the time and I used to get pissed because all my friends were "having fun"...I really tried to stay a virgin and planned to spend the rest of my life with her but it didn't happen. We were too young to marry and had planned to when she graduated from School.. In a moment of weakness, I ended up with a little **** who's name I can't even remember. Jill keeping her virginity until marriage was a very special gift that would have created a special bond between husband and wife...To all you "players"..Good luck on having that type of relationship with your woman
2007-03-20 12:11:44 · answer #4 · answered by Edopa Xin 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, It wouldn't matter to me if she was or wasn't a virgin, because we are all human beings, and none of us are perfect. (I myself lost mine to a girl I thought was "the one" but then later cheated on me.) Even though, "saving yourselves for each other" is supposed to make the wedding night more "special", but that doesn't mean that the first time together as a married couple still can't be special in its own way, especially if you both remain faithful to each other, and your spouse becomes the one and only person who you share that "specialness" with for the rest of your lives together.
2007-03-20 11:56:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sex is an enjoyable pastime between two people who care for each other ---- my lady wants to wait -- how long im not sure --- it does not matter
i dont want a virgin wife again it makes it more interesting if she knows what to expect
2007-03-20 12:01:59 · answer #6 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
andy here
id like to say that if my wife wasnt a virgin or not bc i no that i can wait until our wedding nite bc sex to me isnt everything to me in a relationship
2007-03-20 11:46:18 · answer #7 · answered by Angie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I would not care either way. I would wait, but I would have to live together for a while first.
2007-03-20 11:52:18 · answer #8 · answered by H.B.K. 2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would probably not marry a girl with whom I had not had sex.
I do like virgins and I would marry one but I would have to
had sex with her first..
2007-03-20 11:43:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its up to the girl, but it depends. My girl and I have a lot of premarital sex and its fine. Its up to the person.
2007-03-20 12:05:08 · answer #10 · answered by howardlee1977 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋