She will not speak to me. We had plans on my birthday and he told her she could not go and he would not join us. He has nver met her family and they have been dating for a year. She has not met his family either. I feel like he is no good for her and I aplologized and she hung up on me. Should I keep trying to speak to her or leave her alone? Everytime she gets a boyfiensd she gets physco. I am married by the way . I just feel really hurt that she took it so bad and hurt me on my bday.Thanks!
2007-03-20 04:22:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
She's being completely immature. If he's telling her she can't go places and you think he's bad for her (which is something you just don't pull out of thin air w/o seeing examples) and she's still w/ him, she has issues. Often times its not valuing oneself and thinking that this is all they can get. These people don't feel loved from other places either from the present or past and cling on to people as if it were their only lifeline. If she's dogging her own family member for a guy, there's something wrong. You've talked to her so tell her that what she did was careless and very hurtful to you, she's so wrapped up in this guy to lash out at her own family or alienate them when all they do is offer a helping hand. If this is what she wants (to push you away)- tell her her wish is granted- that you don't want anything to do w/ her drama especially after you've showed concern. The best thing to do is pull back and maybe she'll see. Refuse to talk to her even. The more you push, the more they push back against you.
2007-03-20 05:42:28 · answer #1 · answered by throughthebackyards 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
howdy guy i think your discomfort. U in no way recover from you gf except they do something outrageous that makes you pissed. yet she is attempting to be "pals" its a terrible feeling and every physique hates it. My ex broke up w me the different day because of fact i became to youthful. She's doing to comparable element. yet all im asserting is that if she's attempting to in basic terms be pals then settle for that because of fact if u merely get mad and say screw u... there is not any way ur gettng a 2nd hazard So settle for that actuality that she desires to be "merely pals"
2016-11-27 00:40:08 · answer #2 · answered by hildy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please find a way to keep in contact with her. A boyfriend who forbids his gf to do something is a potential abuser. The day may come when she really needs you. I'm sorry she hurt you but sometimes when we're in a bad situation, our pride makes us behave badly.
2007-03-20 04:26:48 · answer #3 · answered by Sharon M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her some time. He probaly WAS acting stupid. She might be embarassed. I'd leave her alone for a bit. She'll get over it.
2007-03-20 04:25:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH get over yourself. You know she gets psycho over her boyfriends, this is not UNUSUAL behavior on her part....is there a reason you want to stay hurt and angry with her?
2007-03-20 04:57:49 · answer #5 · answered by reddevilbloodymary 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say let her make her own mistakes, but offer a positive attitude toward her and her boyfriend.
He may be more nicer than you think.
If she loves him, then just let her be.
2007-03-20 04:26:31 · answer #6 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its probably her girl friend in all reality
2007-03-20 04:26:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋