help ! in need of different opinions?

Question

Can I be pregnant....?
My boyfriend and I have never had sex, but we screw around sometimes. I've never been late on my period, but all of the sudden I am. I've been really stressed, sick, and not eating well...could that be part of the issue? I'm really worried...I don't want to be pregnant, and I am almost positive that his fingers were clean because he never touches himself. We always wash our hands and such, but after like 8 years of getting my period...and I've almost never been late, and now I am. I'm only 19 so I've heard that some variation in my cycle is possible...but its never happened before. Please help. screwing around is basically fingering
and I didn't know stimulation could mess up your period.
and I'm about 2 days late.

Answer 1

Okay chicky - here's the deal. No sex - no pregnancy! I honestly feel that your above mentioned issues....ie..stress, sick, not eating well.... all play participating factors in your delayed period. Just the excitement of your 'messing' around can delay things. You are only two days late - and if there was NO sex, then there is no pregnancy. NOW, if by chance you aren't telling us the whole story.....say like, maybe there was no actual intercourse but your boyfriend had his 'yahoo' down by your 'yahoo' and he --well, you know-- then there is a chance! Those sperm of his are really good swimmers and will find their way to the finish line!!

But from your statement, I just think you are a little worried over nothing. Relax yourself and quit thinking about it. You've been a busy girl and your period is just trying to catch up with you.

Answer 2

You need sperm to get pregnant. The last I checked fingers don't ejactulate sperm. You should be okay. Unless he did ejaculate on his hand then touch you. Then there is a slim chance you can become pregnant.

Stress can cause you to miss a period or it to be late as well as medical conditions. But don't worry too much. It is normal for period patterns can change. It can change from coming at the beginning of the month to the end of the month. The length of your cycle can change.

But I wouldn't worry about it being only two days late. If your period hasn't come in a day or two go to the doctor. If you don't want to wait you can make a appointment now.
Good Luck to you

Answer 3

If you didnt have sex your not pregnant you HAVE to have sperm to get pregnant. "screwing around" isnt going to do it. Asfor your period stress can screw up your period. and your period will probably become irregular for no reason at times I've never met anyone that had a regular period all their lifes. I'm sure your fine your just stressing out too much. and like I said no sperm no baby

Answer 4

Your fine. Dont worry. On time last year i missed my period for 5 months in a row and there was nothing wrong with me. My body was just "adjusting" and im sure yours is too.

Answer 5

Being stressed can screw up your cycle as well as being sick I highly highly doubt you are pregnant there is no sperm contact so i wouldnt stress that aspect of it .
Good luck

Answer 6

first off i agree with them when they say no sex no baby but here's the deal. my friend who has never had sex with her man just had a baby. what happened was he ejaculated on her and she ended up pregnant. i am still a little mystified by the whole thing but she is 23 like she needs to lie about it.

Answer 7

i hate to say it, but yes, you could be. very slim chance, but yes.

lets say you were touching him, he ejaculates, and it is on your hand, then you help him pull your panties off, dont realize it, and you touch yourself, the semen gets into your body, and voila.

i would say, just wait. maybe it is late, because you are soooo stressed, and not eating right. just wait, or take a test.

good luck

Answer 8

Buy a pregnancy test and stop guessing.

Answer 9

no you are not pregnant and please don't start having sex cause it doesn't sound like your ready!