Me and my gf split up a few weeks ago but we still have 2 see each other everyday, we get on fine but i decided i need my space because i still have feelings for her and it was quite difficult so i moved back home for a few days and stopped getting in contact. she called me and asked why i had not been in contact and didnt reply to her msg. she also got funny with me when she asked when i was going back and i replied, i dont know. i then thought id text her to see how things were and she seems to be ingnoring me. whats going on with her? Oh, and she broke up with me.
2007-03-20 04:16:57 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
CHicks are crazy man, chicks are born crazy and then drive US crazy.
2007-03-20 04:19:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
I've been that girl. She probably realizes that you wont make it as a couple, but is just used to having you around, so it's hard to stablish that space. Also, it's nice on the ego when the guy is still going after you, and you have the luxury of choosing when to take his phone calls, or not take them. Immature? Sure, but many of us have done it at one point or another. The main issue is that you need space, you guys broke up, and you need to be honest about your need for space. SOmeday, in the future, when both of you are not as emotional, you can figure out where you stand as friends.
2007-03-20 04:26:29 · answer #2 · answered by Natalia O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You ignored her text MSG. She ignored yours....Sounds like you both still care for each other. If you wish to stay as "friends" then you should be honest with her and tell her why you are doing what your doing.... need some time and space so you can get on with your life (since she broke it off with you...You will need to be the one to "leave" the relationship since she has already done so)...Plenty "fish in the sea" and you never know what tomorrow will bring......
2007-03-20 04:29:53 · answer #3 · answered by Edopa Xin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps, she doesn't want to be your girlfriend but doens't want you to be anyone's elses. It's like she's trying have the best of both worlds, she wants you to adore her still and make her feel loved.
It's tough to say whether she has feeling for you still or not, she probably does even if she doesn't want to act on them.
Girls can be fickle, especially with matters of the heart. It's a tough time for you both, so do whats best for you and keep a bit of distance for a little while.
I think she's having trouble cutting the cord - you should do it for her as it's not for her to decide seeing as she broke up with you. You never know it may make you both realise you need to be together! Good luck hun x
2007-03-20 05:00:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something weird is going on. She's either playing games with you, or may have some feelings towards you too still. If you really want to know just talk to her. Just you having feelings for her still would make it awkward, especially when you guys had a past together. If you feel that everything really is ended, then just forget it and move on altogether.
2007-03-20 04:23:39 · answer #5 · answered by Sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see a lot of questions on here where if the questioner just said to the person they have a problem with what they say to us, their problem might be solved.
Why not just say to her that being in regular contact is hard for you because you still have feelings for her, and it makes it hard to get over it?
She may be playing games, but do what you need to do for yourself and stay clear of her. You've given her the reason, so no further explanation is necessary.
2007-03-20 04:22:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're handling things just fine except for one key ingrediant: honesty. Tell her that you just need some space and time to get over her and then you'll be fine. Ask her to put her friendship with you on hold until you let her know things are ok and tell you appreciate her sympathy and she'll be tough to lose. She'll like hearing that and it makes you honest which makes for a much better situation.
2007-03-20 04:21:20 · answer #7 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She probably hoped you two could stay friends...
If you can't do that, or you need space, tell her that. She probably doesn't understand because you seemed to be getting on with each other and then you started ignoring her and you moved away... She just wants to know where she stands - She's just giving you the same treatment you gave her I expect.
You two need to talk.
2007-03-20 04:21:41 · answer #8 · answered by tasha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im going to tell you something about females. She's mad because you left her and didnt keep in contact with her. Now she is playing the game, but she really doesnt want to. My suggestion, if you guys like each other get back together and stp playing games, after all, thats what she really wants!!
2007-03-20 04:21:00 · answer #9 · answered by Still Standing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is doing this because she still has feelings for you. If she didn't why bother calling anyway? Answer her back because if you dont the feelings she has for you will go down the drain because she will think your a big jerk. Trust me I'm a woman an I know these things.
2007-03-20 04:30:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like it's tough for her to let go. She's probably still used to knowing what you are up to all of the time and can't handle knowing that you can do whatever you want to now.
It's also possible that she still wants to be with you. Tell her that you distanced yourself from her because of your feelings for her and see how she feels. Be open and honest.
2007-03-20 04:20:36 · answer #11 · answered by Delvala 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋