My boyfriend and I are about to celebrate our one year anniversary and things are great between us, except for the fact that I am never in the mood to have sex with him. Nothing between us has changed and usually I love making love to him. It just seems as if it changed over night and it almost feels gross. Is this normal to feel like this.
2007-03-20 04:08:00 · 15 answers · asked by prima ballerina 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's perfectly normal. There could be tons of reasons why your sex drive is down.
It could be that you aren't getting the emotional connection you would like.
Or maybe it's physical (try 30 of minutes aerobic excersise three times a week-- it releases bunches of endorphans which will make the sex so many times better)
Are you taking an anti-depresant? Some varieties medications make it so you'll never really feel the urge to get it on.
The only way to be possitive is to check with your doctor. I'm sure if you pay her/him a visit you'll be able to sort this thing out very soon. Hope things go well with your boyfriend! : )
2007-03-20 04:28:11 · answer #1 · answered by Laralou`07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah. I mean, sometimes you just do not feel like having sex EVERY single day and God knows how many times each day. Sometimes sleep is more important than sex. Sometimes eating is more important. Sometimes just being alone is more important. I mean, sex is good and all, and to have sex more then twice a week is good but, really, it is normal to feel the way you do when it comes to having sex.
There is nothing wrong with you.
2007-03-20 11:13:10 · answer #2 · answered by uchaboo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, maybe you are just losing your libido. haha. No, give it time and your sex drive should come back . Hopefully. But you say things are great and you are never in the mood.. well get in the mood cuz eventually he is going to get tired and you being boring and find someone who will satisfy him. Watch some porn or do it public.. spice things up... for real.. if you don't stuff gets boring. Go workout and then maybe you will be in the mood for it.
2007-03-20 11:13:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is normal that how the relationship is going affects your mood, but if things are fine it could be a hormonal imbalance, try getting some blood work done, if its not medical then its mental and you just dont want it.
2007-03-20 11:11:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it's not. I would check to ensure your hormone levels are normal, if they are, then I would go to couples counseling. Something is interfereing with your normal desire for intimacy between the two of you.
Occasionally not being in the mood is normal. It being consistent isn't.
2007-03-20 11:14:47 · answer #5 · answered by Radagast97 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you never in mood to have sex with him, for past one year. Just to show your love you loved him (or had sex). It is just a feeling, may be there no co-ordination between your mind and body, and it should be temporary .
2007-03-20 11:22:19 · answer #6 · answered by manjunath_empeetech 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not normal but not unheard of either..
You are going to have to do something or change
something to break out of this pattern...
Try some Womens Porn ( Erotic Romance )
Try having a few drinks & watching some Porn with b/f..
Any sexual activity you have not yet tried ?
Anal / Oral / 3some with a g/f / Outdoors
2007-03-20 11:13:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it could be that you are realizing that sex is not everything in a relationship. Actually it shouldn't be anything in a relationship before marriage. It was intended to be something shared before a husband and wife, and no one else.
2007-03-20 11:14:31 · answer #8 · answered by AdoptiveMama 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, not ever, not at all.
Has something changed in the relationship?
In a relationship, no sex means no relationship.
Do you want out?
2007-03-20 11:15:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say this but....you should move on, that attraction isn't there anymore and you'll just be wasting both of your times.
2007-03-20 11:11:58 · answer #10 · answered by ironmaiden675 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋