if i move out at 17 (the cops said i can) and i dont let my mom no where i am could she tell the cops im missing? but what if i call the cops and tell them im not and talk to them i still will be going to school and everything i just dont want her noing where i am.
2007-03-20 04:03:57 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Call the childrens aids society, they will give you some directions and no they will not force you to go anywhere but they may be able to help you with getting your own apartment and getting organized for school and get some funding for yourslef. Keep in contact with the police station and make sure you are doing all you can to prevent her from finding you. I hope it works out, take care Heather
2007-03-20 04:10:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are planning to move out, sit down and have a talk about you moving out. Just let her know that you want to be on your own for now. If its deeper than that, Tell her that you are moving out. I'm staying in school and the rest, But you don't want her too know your new address.
Your mom still can find you , by just asking your school or the cops for your new address. Best plan is just tell her that you want to be on your own for now.
A, Dad.
2007-03-20 11:12:33 · answer #2 · answered by railroad_joe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, that's true. You can tell the police where you are. What ever your situation is, make sure that your leaving for the right reasons. There's nothing out there for a 17 year on there own but trouble. Make sure you are going somewhere where people will love you as much as your mother. If they care about you, they will tell you to call her to at least let her know that you are OK. Even if you don't tell her where you are. What could be so bad that you would want to make her worry. When I was your age I ran away just because my mom wouldn't let me do what I wanted to do. I wanted to be with my so call friends. Well, those weren't my friends because if they were, they would of told me to stay home and work things out with my mom because mothers aren't perfect. They may fuss and nag and even have their faults. But, they do it because they have experience what they see us going though. And they already know the outcome and try their best to stop us before it gets too late. Silly parents, huh? Well, I had to learn the hard way and right now to this day, I wish I would've litsen to my mom cause I see that all she wanted was what was best for me.
I am not trying to be a no it all but I am a 22 year old who was 17 before and it took me leaving my mom and getting hurt to realize who really cared about me. And guess who it was, my mom. I guarantee you that when things get lonely and cold out there, your mom's door will be open for you. Think about what your doing!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Remember, life without an education is a hard life. If you get pregnant that's even worst. If you think your woman enough to leave your mom at this age, be woman enough to sit down and tell her the truth. Why don't you go to college and live on campus, that way you wont have to get involved with the police. There's nothing in the streets for a 17 year old but trouble. You have to think about who's going to take care of you when you leave. You can't take care of yourself cause you're only 17 and can't get a real job at that age. If you're leaving your mom to be with some guy, it wont last because soon as he see that you'll leave your mom for him, he'll feel like he owns you. Heather, you're setting yourself up for failure. If your not being abused at home with your mom, you need to stay and figure out what you are going to do with your life. Don't make the wrong decisions PLEASE!!!!
2007-03-20 11:26:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to someone at your local Juvenile court counselors office or social services. They can inform you of the laws in your area.
2007-03-20 11:39:53 · answer #4 · answered by curious74432 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't do this. You will regret moving out at this age, unless you are getting abused or something.
2007-03-20 11:08:04 · answer #5 · answered by Stuck in the middle of nowhere 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why do you feel the need to not tell your mom where you are?
2007-03-20 11:09:01 · answer #6 · answered by loving U 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋