we live with my mother in law and im sick of being there, and i wanna move out now, but my husband wants to wait till he graduates cus i still got 3 more years 2 go, what is the best thing to do ?
2007-03-20 04:02:16 · 11 answers · asked by sourgirl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
we already pay, we pay bills by the way, we dont live for free
2007-03-20 04:08:06 · update #1
If you move out, where will go and how will you afford it?
The best thing to do is finish college with the least amount of debt possible.
2007-03-20 04:05:37 · answer #1 · answered by Fester Frump 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When does he graduate, is it the same as you? I think the first thing to consider is whether you can afford to live elsewhere? If you can then I would say you two need to move out, even if it's somewhere small. I love my in-laws, but I wouldn't want to live with them longer than a month, and wouldn't ask my husband to live with my parents either. It's easier for him, because it's his Mum - maybe ask him how he would feel if it was the other way round!? By living with your mother in law you are not getting the chance to learn how to do things yourself as a couple.
2007-03-20 04:19:49 · answer #2 · answered by iccleanne 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well if you are sick of it and can afford it, I would get all the information together, money, apartments/housing etc.. and present my case to my husband. Men like this approach rather than saying ICK we gotta go! Especially when it comes to their mom. On the other hand if you CAN stick it out and it's not going to ruin your marriage, it's probably best financially, but financially best does not always mean it is best for your relationship. If you feel that is the case, make the best possible case for your future and be honest with your husband in saying, honey, I just can't do this anymore, I know she's your mom but it is really hard for me.
2007-03-20 04:10:06 · answer #3 · answered by sassinya 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is wait until you're financially able to and are prepared. The cost of living isn't cheap so consider the thought that you have it made in the shade and that you dont have to pay your own bills. Living at home while going to college is more easier you dont have financial burdens and so forth. So its better to wait when you're in the position to move out. You dont want to be struggling to pay your bills while trying to attend college. So wait until you're done with college!
2007-03-20 04:10:06 · answer #4 · answered by may_sweetiegirl87@yahoo.com 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Every time I have ever made a financial decision where I could have waited but didn't, I ended up regretting it. It may be tough now but it will be so much easier when your husband gets a better job because he has graduated. Some of the places you have to live in when funds are short can be really scary.
2007-03-20 04:24:43 · answer #5 · answered by Sharon M 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The Bible says when you get married you're suppose to leave your parents and cleave to your mate. I'd move to a cheap little apt. and have your own "home"! Marriage is hard enough without the added stress of living with your in-laws!
2007-03-20 04:05:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
i guess u should wait until he finish cus is hard when u live by ur self. u have to pay .
2007-03-20 04:07:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just wait it out and leave after his college graduation.
Try to make it better for yourself, however that may be...
2007-03-20 04:05:18 · answer #8 · answered by i ♥þîÑk☆ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just wait a little while. he is trying to give you the best and let him make you happy. just wait a little while and you will see how happy you will be.
2007-03-20 04:05:44 · answer #9 · answered by h2o :] 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
move out now things wll not get better
2007-03-20 04:06:07 · answer #10 · answered by aslan 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋