There is this girl I really like - I have told her my feeling last year but she said she just wanna be friends. Now, should I ask her out (which I've never done)? Yesterday, we texted each other and I thought I might have a slim chance to win her heart.. For the past few months, I have been offering my help though and last January I made her a b'day card.
Should I ask her out and how??
2007-03-20 04:01:11 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you do't want to get hurt, and there is no rush, wait a little bit, to make sure, you really can win her heart, and then ask her. wait for the greatest moment, when you're sure she will say yes, maybe, when you two are laughing together, or talk to her, connect with her etc. the there are no surprises. if she enjoys your company, ask her out.
if you are not afraid of the result, ask her out now, and see what happens, after all, you can handle if she says no, as she did last year, people change.
2007-03-20 04:08:57 · answer #1 · answered by canabis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her out as a friend. Really respect her wishes as being friends right now and talk to her more to really learn about her.
2007-03-20 04:04:49 · answer #2 · answered by love 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buddy, you have nothing to lose by trying. All she can do is say no right? Don't live a life of regret. If you think you have a chance then jump on it before its to late.
2007-03-20 04:07:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hold out a little longer.. until you are good friends with her.You sound like a real sweetheart.. i think the more she gets to know you, the more she will fall for you.
2007-03-20 04:05:06 · answer #4 · answered by Amberlee :D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She said she wants to be friends. Before you ask her out and ruin the friendship, try talking to her to see if her feelings have changed.
2007-03-20 04:04:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she told you she just wants to be friends, then chances are good that "she just wants to be friends". Unless she's suddenly started flirting with you and spending a lot more time with you, I'd leave it alone...
2007-03-20 04:04:57 · answer #6 · answered by BRWNEYES 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do it what do you have to lose maybe she has had a change of heart now and if not you two can still remain friends
2007-03-20 04:06:41 · answer #7 · answered by Tiffany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be her friend. Just wait. Dont wait too long but u dont want to ruin a frienship either.
2007-03-20 04:12:51 · answer #8 · answered by ilovechocolate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u think she likes u then go for it. as for the asking part... do it in person... it's ok if u seem shy and akward it's cute... just be like "will u go out w/ me" good luck hope it works out.... p.s. remember to smile and be nice
2007-03-20 04:09:52 · answer #9 · answered by snorfgoogle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think you should ask her out staight away
talk to her and tell her how you feel and then ask her how she feels about you and if she feels the same then ask her out trust me!!!
beacasue then you wont get hurt so bad xx
2007-03-20 04:06:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋