I've been goin out with this girl for ages and all of a sudden she breaks up with me i asked her why and she said I was bieng to nice that I helped her to much and gave her exactly what she wanted all the time and that she didn't believe that a guy should do all of that for a girl whats wrong with me?
2007-03-20 03:57:06 · 13 answers · asked by tyler d 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You might as well learn early. Women, especially younger women (under 20-25) love men that are jerks.
Now a bunch will get on here and tell you otherwise, but don't listen.
If you start acting like a little bit humorous and alot like an ahole, they will be all over you.
It is a fact of life that won't be changed any time soon.
2007-03-20 04:01:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am going through almost the same thing, except the only reason(after a week of trying to get it out of her) was that she wanted "sex, Sans Relationship" I tried to do everything for this girl, I even put a ring on her finger and she said yes. I totally and completly put my life to a hault for this girl. I was very quickly on my way to being a rockstar. Mind you I did it, not her. but she said she also couldn't deal with my past. which happend six years ago and she only knows a little bit about it, lets just say she knows enough. I went through 3 years of theropy for this, I got help and i would never go back to that. but she said I was her soul mate and that she finally feels confident that she could stop looking for anyone now. and now that has changed in the 6 months we were together? wow. I think she got cold feet. i think the worry of only being with one person finally caught up to her. I think she has done this to a few people.... She has been in a lot of relationships and broke a lot of hearts, but I still love her, and im still trying to figure out, whats wrong with me? why did that happen? where did I go wrong?
2007-03-20 04:12:01 · answer #2 · answered by Deformation Age 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats wrong with you??? Dont you mean whats wrong with her !!! Apparently she doesnt know a good man if it slapped her with a VISA (lol) Dont give up you are a one of a kind and the way I see it .. Its her loss and maybe it was for the best .. She may have broke your heart and caused you to be shielded from every tasting lifes gift of "LOVE" and you will succeed I have no doubt ...
2007-03-20 04:06:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is absolutely nothing wrong with you, there is something wrong with her!! If she left you for something like that then believe me she didn't deserve you in the first place. There are so few genuinely "good guys" out there now days, she must want someone who will treat her like crap......
2007-03-20 04:00:57 · answer #4 · answered by BRWNEYES 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong with you. some girls don't like it when you do everything for them. next time try not to. unless they asked. you will find someone that will care for you .just be patient. she will find out what she let go. a good man. good luck.
2007-03-20 04:01:11 · answer #5 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it dont really sound like your the problem, shes the problem.. seems like she got tired of you giving her everything she wants and doing everything right.. so i bet if you stop and let her chase you for awhile she might come running back but she prolly jus got tired of you being so "perfect".. especially if you guys have been together for awhile she jus wants something different..its nothing against you at all cuz most girls wish they had a guy like you to give them everything they want so dont take it likes it you.. thats her loss if she dont want someone like you ;)
2007-03-20 04:16:28 · answer #6 · answered by sweet_cotton_candy_gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the question should be what's wrong with her. Find a girl who will appreciate what you do for her instead of one who complains about what you do for her.
2007-03-20 04:01:35 · answer #7 · answered by Bugsy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong with you there is something majorly wrong with her i wish i could find a guy like you instead of the jerks ive found but there is nothin wrong with you its her.
2007-03-20 04:05:36 · answer #8 · answered by somebodyssexygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too nice. Become a jerk and she will like you again.
2007-03-20 04:00:11 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You mean WHAT'S WRONG WITH HER?? She has head problems...
2007-03-20 04:01:11 · answer #10 · answered by shygal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋