Why is that everytime someone falls in love with an asshole they turn around and get hurt in the processes like i love w/ all my heart a guy thats goes by BP its the letters of his first and last name well he treats me like **** but i always go runnin back to him all the time is cuz i'm dumb or cuz i'm blinded by love all his friends are tofaced but he wont believe me when i try to tell him they are and he believes everything he hears about me alot of people talk **** on me cuz they don;t want me w/ him but i don't understand why he does this is it just a man thing or what?
2007-03-20 03:55:24 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well....its not a man thing. not all men are like that! he doesnt trust you enough,and probably respects you less because you always come back to him even if he hurts you. its very likely that he is too confident that you wont leave him because you love him too much. its easy to tell that he cares more about what his friends or other people will say.
i dont think youd like to hear this, but you have to consider breaking up with him. a relationship cant last long with not enough trust and respect (and love).
2007-03-20 05:00:22 · answer #1 · answered by rinkumi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is like that because you allow him into your life despite it. The fact is your suffering for not loving yourself I mean is this guy the best person around you? You need a bigger town if he is. Or you need to redefine what is good boyfriend matteral. Ether way you've got yourself to blame for this. No its not a "man" thing ,you said it your self, its an asshole thing. Till you feel good enough about yourself to deal with people a step above these asshole's mentaility your stuck like chunk dealing with your lack of compassion for your ownself. We pay the price for not loving ourselves, of course wisdom teaches you that, not TV.
2007-03-20 05:02:19 · answer #2 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋