What are some signs your boyfriend is cheating on you?

Answer 1

...he never has time for you anymore, he's always busy, you don't get to see each other like usual, not communicating like u use too, always on the run, rushing you on the phone, basically he begins to keep a certain distance...or there are the types that because they're feeling some sort of guilt starts to give you too much attention...

Answer 2

You can't really base these factors on everyone but I would say from experience, they are things to look out for if you suspect something...

His cellphone is always on his side and he never ever leaves it where you can get it...

Secret phone calls or weird ones (my ex would either not answer or make up something as to who was calling and why...)

Starts accusing you of cheating for no reason...

Is less affectionate...

Working late hours or just lying about his whereabouts...


I have been through this before with my now ex-husband and
these were ultimately the signs that started making me wonder. Usually if a cheater hasn't been caught before they aren't as likely to cover up their tracks as well. I couldn't believe how many other signs I eventually found after finding out for a fact that my ex was cheating...I found a note from some girl in his wallet and after I kicked him out of my house, I checked out one of his phone bills and sure enough he was talking to this girl everyday and night...

I hope for your sake that nothing is going with your bf but in far too many instances, when a person listens to their intuitions, they are for the most part correct...I would however, try talking to your bf but keeping yourself aware of his behavior...Good luck and take care :)

Answer 3

if he starts being mean to you alot (he's trying to get you to dump him so he wont look like the bad guy), if he starts telling you he can't go places, when you used to hang out alot (he's trying to spend time with her, and cant stand to be around you because he feels guilty), he starts talking about "what if" you broke up (he's preparing you for the worst), you notice him looking at/talking to another specific girl alot, or you think he's met someone at work(thats self explanatory), and you also might just have a feeling. but don't let " a feeling" (known as suspicion or jealousy) get in the way of love. the BIGGEST sign is when you ask him if he likes this other girl, or if he's cheating he gets very very angry and extremely defensive. his real reaction should be attempts to comfort you.

finally, don't blow something out of proportion and ruin a relationship. all guys dont cheat, but if you think yours is, dont simply accuse him--tell him NICELY of your feelings, and why what he is doing hurts you or makes you suspicious. if he is cheating, you should break up with him, and you will move on.

Answer 4

doesn't come home. leaves the room to take or make phone calls. comes home smelling like stong cologne, you know, like he just sprayed it on in the car to cover something up. Doesn't answer his phone hardly at all or during the same hours everyday (given the fact that he can answer and he's not actually doing physical labor or he is unavailable at work) you catch him in little tiny lies like where he went for lunch or how long his lunch hour is, etc. If your gut is saying it's happening then just wait it out, eventually he will slip up and you will catch it.

Answer 5

One sign is especially when they start acting distant. I should've known something was up when my ex started acting distant, not totally ignoring me, but acting like I wasn't his girl. And than when people start telling you things always question them. You can't believe what everybody says, but most of the time what you believe-your gut intuition is always telling the truth.

Answer 6

-looses interest in you
-not interested in sex wid u as much
-his schedule changes
-he dresses differently and wears cologne.
-his phobne bill is huge and its not from work or u
-he talks about a particular female coworker alot
-learns something new in sex or wants 2 trry somethin new that he thinks you'll enjoy.
-if his cart is usually messy and somehow its clean.
-comes home late and spends time wid his fiends more then he used 2.
- anythin outta character
-get bills from a restaurant or gets a private bank or credit card.
-texts to much 2 females.

theres alot but the main point is trust your gut and confront them and give reasons they usually they deny it and try 2 guilt trip u but if you bring up occourences and ur suspicians which you should write down incase u forget or he tries to trick u into thinking ur memory is false. then guilt trip him in return.

well i hope i helped

Answer 7

woman's intuition, gaps in time unaccounted for forgetting special dates, wanting to b alone more often, conversation on a low, answering calls on d/l starting arguments 4 no reason, accusing U of cheating...

Answer 8

Usually if you see a sudden change in how often he showers & wears cologne. If he suddenly has new things to do & is busy. Has "private" phone calls. Smells like womens cologne or has hair or lipstick on his clothes. Lots of times they will have new numbers in their phone or pictures in wallet.

Answer 9

its obvious when u wanna see weather a guy is cheating on u
1.u see him playing and disturbing girls alot.
2.doesent even call or text u 2 say 'how are u'
3.acting weired than he usually used 2.
hope that helps!
best of luck!
elsa :)

Answer 10

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