No ones perfect, but in my eyes my bf is the angel who stop my life in its tracks. We love each others presence. We want to be with each other every second of the day. We talk about almost anything. We trust and love each other very dearly. This relationship seems above all "mutual," hence thats why I denote "we." Don't get me wrong we have our whirpool of obstacles, but the majority of those situations are outside forces. I'm only 19 years old, but never felt so entoned with someone it feels great (he's 23). I know he's 5 years old, he's looking for like settling down. I know some may think, your young, live it up! But, honestly I don't, I would much rather spend my days with his image that i never want to fade away. =/ I love him so much.
2007-03-20 03:43:27 · 9 answers · asked by micolperu317 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like you two really are in love. Congratulations hon, many of us don't get to live it. I would tell you to hang onto him as hard as you can, but settling down at your age is pretty up to you. I married at 19 and don't regret it, but before I started to have kids I should have lived my life a little more. Good luck on whatever you decide.
2007-03-20 03:49:10 · answer #1 · answered by shygal 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're young and won't listen to any advice given to you here unless it matches your line of thinking but here goes:
There will be more than one "the one" through out your lifetime. As you grow as a person, "the one" will take on many manifestations as you age as you never stay the same person as you grow older. As you age you grow/mature as a person as well. You really don't truly discover who you are until your late 20's to early 30's. There's a good reason people are telling you that you're too young and to live life. The first being experience. Young marriages have a high percentage of divorce and growth / lack of maturity is the main reason for breakups of people who marry under the age of 27. And love always fades....always.
2007-03-20 03:53:07 · answer #2 · answered by Lilith 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In your heart and even in the pit of your stomach you will know when you have found that special someone. And I do not think that the 5 year age difference is anything - that is nothing. How long have you been together? Even though you love spending time with him - don't forget about your friends, they are just as important to have
2007-03-20 03:49:15 · answer #3 · answered by Ella 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, you know that you've found the one when he really respects you for who you are. If you want to settle down too, then this is fine. However, if you have some doubts about settling down and he can't understand that, then this may be a problem. I guess I would ask you how long you've been in this relationship, because if you've been in it for a long time to see his flaws and your own flaws, then that's fine. True love takes time, so if you haven't been with him for a long time, then, you may not really appreciate your boyfriend for who he is.
2007-03-20 03:49:56 · answer #4 · answered by love 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You've found "The One" when the butterflies never go away.
2007-03-20 03:49:20 · answer #5 · answered by The Peav 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Follow your heart not your head.
2007-03-20 03:47:06 · answer #6 · answered by Amberlee :D 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Listen to your heart.
2007-03-20 03:52:23 · answer #7 · answered by arabs 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you feel this way and he feels this way you have found the one. Congratulations.
2007-03-20 03:50:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you wanna know how to know "the one" thisis what you should do.............................................................................................
KNOW GOD...SO HE CAN TELL IF HE/SHE ISTHE ONE FOR YOU....P.S. this is true....
2007-03-20 03:48:19 · answer #9 · answered by squall_cloud 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋