This guy who has a serious crush on me use to get jelouse when I talk to other guys (normal conversation) or does not want me to have a serious conversation with anyone even women. Know it may seem like it does not bother him or he is a little sad about the situation. Last week he was all over me. What does this mean. Yes I like him and he knows it.
2007-03-20 03:30:22 · 16 answers · asked by curious 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He figured out he was a jerk?
Why not ask him?
2007-03-20 03:33:05 · answer #1 · answered by uisignorant 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest with you.. That is not really a good ground to start a relationship on. The jealousy and controling nature of the situation unless addressed now will become a big issue. Trust me I had a 3 year relationship with someone like that, it ended up killing it! Not been able to talk to anyone, having to watch what ever I do or say....No Not good. If you like this guy and think there is a good chance youcan progress the relationship, I suggest you talk about this honestly and openly and see what happens? If he can get the possesivness and controlingness sorted then cool, if he cant think very serioously about where you want to go!
Good luck
2007-03-20 10:49:45 · answer #2 · answered by djp6314 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you know the guy has a crush, and you have been blowing cold for too long, may be he has either grown emotionally and no longer feels jealous about you talking with other people.
if you want to date the guy, talk to him and ask him out. then talk to him why he used to get jealous and does not anymore.
no two people are 100% alike in their emotions, so all anyone on answers can do is give an opinion. the truth can only be gained/ learnt by talking this out with the guy you are talking about in the question.
2007-03-20 10:40:26 · answer #3 · answered by thebestnamesarealreadytaken0909 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, its part of growing up and learning and understanding peoples feelings or attitude. There are times that he will be all over you and there will be times that he wont be. I suggest that you guys talk about it. No one can answer it correctly for you except himself. Sounds like you guys like each other and if you are both single and like each other, I think you should bring it up to confirm it and then be a bf and gf if thats what you guys both want to happen.
2007-03-20 10:38:04 · answer #4 · answered by Edluv 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay i had a similar situation like dat just comfornt him gurl and tell him that if yall r goin 2 b together then hes gonna have 2 let u have his space(nicely of course) and then ask him whats so wrong with you talking 2 other guys thats just down right dumb!
2007-03-20 10:35:54 · answer #5 · answered by Chrisbrown lady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think hes just affraid that you might not like him anymore... so hes being wayyyyyy over protective. So like you should tell him that your still into him and make him feel sure of himself , so he dosn't have his doubts when you talk to other guys.
^^ hope it helps!
2007-03-20 10:43:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, it's not really smart to be with controlling people like that and second, maybe he's "just not that into you" anymore.
2007-03-20 10:32:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like each other, why are not together? If you wait too long then he'll probably give up on you and move on.
2007-03-20 10:34:29 · answer #8 · answered by lollysarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds a little controlling to me, I think you should really think if this is ther person you want to be with.
2007-03-20 10:34:11 · answer #9 · answered by Ella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's like that wi u now, imagine wot he wud b like if u got in2 a relationship wi him - controllin, jealous, paranoid - not the ideal qualities in a boyfiend.
2007-03-20 10:33:36 · answer #10 · answered by debs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he's trying to tell you, in his strange way, that he wants a relationship with you. But then he shouldn't want to keep you from everyone.
2007-03-20 10:33:19 · answer #11 · answered by frozenpancake582 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋