Before you answer read part one:
http://au.answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AhAqUZfNA8bsCS7cdKDTesTg5gt.?qid=20070320062824AAabOG7
Everyone who answered part 1 of this question thinks I don't deserve him.This is him:
*He loves public displays of affection which bugs me to death.Why can't he just act like every guy around his gf in public?
*He keeps calling me at work just to say "hi" and "I love you".What kind of loser does that when he's going to see me in less than 6 hours?
*He keeps making big deals out of anniversaries while I don't so I always end up having to feel bad about forgetting to get him something while he goes all out.
*He's so attentive it's drives me mad especially when I'm in a bad mood and he wants me to talk about it.
*He gets me tickets to concerts and suprises me with presents occasionally without permission.If I want something,I'll ask for it.
If he wasn't so good looking I would have dumped him ages ago.Now who doesn't deserve who?
2007-03-20 03:28:26 · 15 answers · asked by Jamie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh you are a sad looking thing.. Please dump him and let a beautiful, intelligent and compassionate woman meet him and i guarantee you that you will be extinct in his mind! You are such a brat, your first question made everyone thing of you as a selfish person but your second questions makes me thing that your boyfriend is one of the few good guy in this world. Please dump him and let's see how your next boyfriend treats you. I'm sure you'll be hooked to this category writing titles like 'please help he doesn't remember my birthday" or "please help he is dumping me because I'm not pretty enough and women throw themselves at him constantly"! I still think he deserves better.
You probably don't have enough experience to value the kind of man you have.
2007-03-20 03:47:00 · answer #1 · answered by liza246 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I agree with the other person. You don't deserve him. He is doing this stuff for you because he cares. Calling a girl in the middle of the day to talk to them (even though your seeing them in 6 hours) shows you are thinking about them. I'd love to have a girl call me while I was at work. I really hope you work this out or he finds someone more suited to himself.
While I'm here, let me make some more comments....
* He's so attentive it's drives me mad especially when I'm in a bad mood and he wants me to talk about it. :----. He wants to talk to you to help you through the situation and to make you feel better.
*He gets me tickets to concerts and suprises me with presents occasionally without permission.If I want something,I'll ask for it.
------> He buys this stuff for you because he loves you. Get a hint. I would do the same for my girlfriend.
2007-03-28 09:31:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually Jamie, this guy seems nice and sweet and romantic and caring and kind and wonder which doesn't seem like you are any of these things and I truly don't mean to offend you at all. You seem like you are independent, don't need to be loved, don't want to be loved, not a care in the world for this guys feelings. You called him a loser because he loves you enough to remember anniversaries, just to call to say I love you, surprising you with gifts and showers of love, just because he is affectionate which is what most women want in a man. This doesn't make him a loser it makes his credible in every sense of being a true gentleman. If he were the type to call you a b**** or w****or s*** or beat you night and day or never call or give you anything, would that please you and make you happy? There is this saying: you never know what you have til its gone. Jamie, you are going to miss that man when God gives him to someone who really deserves him and desires him. You should treat him the way he treats you and if thats not your thing then be a woman and let him go so that he can find someone who does love him and desire him. Apparently, he doesn't deserve you because you aren't worth what he has to offer.
2007-03-20 10:41:53 · answer #3 · answered by sharethalove 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have answered part 1 and have read part 2. Most woman would love to have a guy who is the way you described your bf. Open your eyes most woman on yh r complaining there men are not what yours is. It is apparent you do not like him.
Your last sentence says it all. You call him a looser. He should break up with you and then he would be a winner.
2007-03-28 10:17:32 · answer #4 · answered by Kat G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL WOW!!! you don't diserve him!!! i read both parts and both parts make him to be a wonderful person that any woman would die to have and be treated like you are! he needs to get rid of you and it sounds like you need to find yourself a pimp, cause it sounds like that's what you want to be treated as! you should have been there in his time of needs, a few weeks ago, i drove 1 1/2 to pick up my boyfriend at 3:00 on a work day because he had too much to drink, then drove all the way home, the next day i drove the whole thing again, so he could get his car...i didn't mind because i love him and would do anything for him, as he would me! good luck in your hunt for an abusive boyfriend....i'm sure you will have no problem! they are all out there waiting!
2007-03-20 10:36:58 · answer #5 · answered by cantthinkofauseridsohereitis 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I still say you're a perfect match. He is masochistic and enjoys being humilated and degraded and you're a sadist who enjoys humilating and degrading him. I'm sure you two will go the distance together. Good luck in the future and if you really want to prove your point about public displays of affection make out with his best friend in front of him so he can see for himself how it appears to others.
2007-03-20 10:36:59 · answer #6 · answered by Quix 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
He loves you. Yet you don't love him. So why hinder him. From moving on from you. And finding someone better? That isn't fair to either of you. Maybe you'll respect a man. Who beats you up. Defains you regularly.
2007-03-28 04:19:33 · answer #7 · answered by andelagdn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hy, u mad mad baby, it is only style todo love,all guys like todo love,it is too hard 1st he want to learn how u like love style,love is only love , any style,any time, any where and with any body.
2007-03-28 01:37:55 · answer #8 · answered by Hot man 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Liar Liar pants on fire,there arent any men that attentive in this world honey!! BUT YOU CAN DREAM!! gotta love it!! hahahahahaha
2007-03-28 02:32:56 · answer #9 · answered by diva_in_phx420 aka ladyunicorn420 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie, dump him and GIVE HIM TO ME! I think He deserve better than YOU! . I guess you are not sensitive at all, all you think is me, me, me and me. You don't need a boyfriend at all maybe you like someone like a loser, not loser what you think. I love my man calling me at work and say ilove you . I thnk you need a therapist for your head. goodluck!
2007-03-20 10:38:20 · answer #10 · answered by sure_whatever_29 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋