I started a gym and really like it and when I go... there are mostly guys working out. They are really sweet and if I need any help they are very nice about helping me other then a few I feel are whispering about me! I am not fat but I could be in better shape thats why I am going! Whats the best way to over look it! It makes me feel weird! By the way I am 22 married with 2 kids! I'm not flirting with any of them!
2007-03-20 03:10:44 · 10 answers · asked by BlondGrl 2 in Health ➔ Diet & Fitness
I had the same problem but I boxed one of them and that showed them how tough I was. Almost everyday i brought my MP3 player and didn't hear them whisper.
2007-03-20 03:28:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are just being guys. It may be hard but you just have to ignore the whispers. Besides that you don't know what they are saying - they could be saying really nice things about you or not even talking about you. Just be thankful for their help and don't let them discourage you from going to the gym.
2007-03-20 03:20:00 · answer #2 · answered by GingerGirl 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Ah, sounds like you're self-conscious. Don't worry, everyone at the gym is there for the same reason you are, so just get on with what you're there for.
You could of course go to another gym which is more frequented by women.
2007-03-20 03:14:54 · answer #3 · answered by Ya-sai 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over yourself. They're probably not whispering about you. Wear headphones, concentrate on your workout, and if you need help ask the gym staff, not one of the "very sweet and helpful" guys who are there working out.
2007-03-20 03:56:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Just put your headphones and workout. What you wear in the gym really dictates how much attention you'll get too.
2007-03-20 03:48:24 · answer #5 · answered by ropemancometh 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you started the gym, then u are the boss.
Ignore them and yrs of workout , u will look better than them.
2007-03-20 03:15:00 · answer #6 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are just going to be like that. When you go to the gym, go for yourself, don't worry about what they think.
2007-03-20 03:13:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wear headphones and ignore them when you think they are whispering about you (chances are they aren't).
Good Luck!
2007-03-20 03:13:14 · answer #8 · answered by Jo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are a bad wife fliritng with guys and ur husband would divorce ..and ur gonna cheat on him..cuz ur bad girl
2007-03-20 03:25:40 · answer #9 · answered by u know it 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
ignore them. why should you care what they think?
2007-03-20 03:15:12 · answer #10 · answered by Kutekymmee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋