My BF got another phone added to his calling plan a couple of weeks ago. He said it was for his new business that he was trying to start up, however he refused to give me the number. I felt a little insecure about it & felt like he was trying to hide something from me. A friend of mine works for Verizonwireless & I found out what his new number is. He is suspecting that I know his new phone number. He sent me a text last night saying that he wanted to see if I would lie about it or not. I haven't responded yet because I wanted to talk to him face to face about it. I just want him to understand how I don't feel comfortable when he keeps things from me & I told him that before. I know it was wrong 4 me 2 go behind his back, but do you think it's possible for him to offer me some understanding about it? I mean y would he want to keep something like that from me anyway. I also don't want to rat out my friend that gave me the number so I know he's going 2 think I went thru his phone
2007-03-20 02:54:36 · 9 answers · asked by geminig 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My first question is why he wouldldn't want to give you his new number anyway, even if it is for business purposes. It sounds fishy to me, but I'm cynical. I would come out and ask him about it and let him know you did not go through his phone and that you have a friend who works where they do. If he's still defensive about it and doesn't understand your point of view, you may want to just move on. Why be with someone whom you dont' feel you can trust and who will hide things from you?
2007-03-20 03:00:11 · answer #1 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is hiding the number from you then something is wrong. if the phone is really is for a new business he wants to start the why cant you have the number? unless you are a psyco caller and would pester him on that line all the time. he has a regular phone that you contact him on so you would have no reason to call the new number but him refusing to give you the number is a warning sign in my eyes.
2007-03-20 10:08:04 · answer #2 · answered by vinnieangel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hah you go girl! it is good to have friends in places like that!!!!! i looked through my bf's stuff all the time, and i found so many things he did behind my back...omg TELL him you know his new number and ask ur friend at verizon if they can tell you what numbers he has been calling. or just go online and look at ur bf's statement. good luck, and if u do find anything dump him now because he will only get worse...trust me
mwah
2007-03-20 10:01:25 · answer #3 · answered by Star274009 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is the point in knowing his OTHER number. If you have one number to contact him this should be enough. Every person needs his own space. Let him have his own space.
2007-03-20 11:03:26 · answer #4 · answered by YaYa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meet him face to face and brace urself for the consequences cos if he had something really really bad to hide he'll get on the offenssive n i know u'll not let it end there. lol
All the best!
2007-03-20 10:04:31 · answer #5 · answered by Naughty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya, I would break up with him before he does with you. I mean cmon.. why would he not give you the phone number. Dump his ***. Sorry to say but that's pretty fishy..
2007-03-20 10:58:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe it's better for both of you to meet and tell one another how you feel and maybe you could tell him you knew his new number and see his reaction.since both of you are together,maybe you two should try to understand one another
2007-03-20 10:05:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's the best thing to do face to face. and i don't like the looks of this
2007-03-20 09:58:54 · answer #8 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you should break up with him,, YOU BOTH are being way to sneaky for this relationship to work
2007-03-20 09:57:50 · answer #9 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋