my long distance gf has dumped me for someone else we havnt seen anyone for ages but thats cos i was helping her financially when i had the cash i been struggling to afford to do that and have been saving for her to get the final deposit on a house, now she says its over and she wants to date this guy i am gutted should i try to get her back ?? help
2007-03-20 02:44:33 · 12 answers · asked by johnny 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think she dumped me cos i wasnt coming thru with the cash for the future house for our future is that a fair thing from her point of view
2007-03-20 02:53:51 · update #1
No...She was obviously just after your money.You are well rid...x
2007-03-20 02:48:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
imagine your mate is telling you this problem - what would you think about his g/f? What advice would you give him? I suspect you would tell him that he's being taken for a ride, that his g/f is a good-for-nothing sponger and that he's better off without her. Harsh words, but it seems that it's been you putting in all the effort here, and the cash, and that's the thanks you get. Most other women would kiss the ground you walk on, for what you're doing.
You really deserve better, so take your own advice and move on. A guy with your charm and generosity deserves a lot better, believe me.
Good luck, there's someone else around the corner who will treat you properly!
2007-03-20 10:04:16 · answer #2 · answered by gorgeousfluffpot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like a bit of a cow - better off without mate
2007-03-20 10:02:52 · answer #3 · answered by shoeey2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a gold digging *****. Just assume she was after ur cash the whole time, it will take the sting away
2007-03-20 10:21:07 · answer #4 · answered by sssxc1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO don't try and get her back! save your money and the hassle of having a long distance gf!
2007-03-20 09:48:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a lesson should be learnt
2007-03-20 09:53:26 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. sounds to me like she was just using you for you ca$h.
2007-03-20 09:48:12 · answer #7 · answered by Amberlee :D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what a ******* gold digger!
I feel sorry for you :( you deserve so much better :)
hope it goes better next time round and your ex gets what she deserves!
2007-03-20 11:35:16 · answer #8 · answered by tablesalt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were used, man. Sorry.
2007-03-20 09:51:22 · answer #9 · answered by FaerieWhings 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
better off without her mate anyways, it isn't as if you were getting regular sex off her....
2007-03-20 09:51:01 · answer #10 · answered by tickTickTICK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋