is just i m afraid to get hurt.so i avoid having any crush with someone. even i have the feelings, i just ignore it, swallow the numb and move on?.. what do you think about it guys?
i mean why do waste your time by having a relationship, and in the next five years maybe you breaks up,and having broken-hearted? why why why.....is like intentionally put yourself in a danger area, and when the bomb explode, you're get the pain ...tell me .thanks for answering
2007-03-20
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➔ Singles & Dating
It is better to have loved and lost than to have never have loved at all is a crock of horse shyt.
If you are young I think what you are doing is smart in a way but it has to be very lonely.
Do take some risks when you are ready because the love that you do find will be so worth it but I do think that it is smart that you are not falling in love with every ship that sails in
2007-03-20 02:29:55
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answered by lisa s 6
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I'm not sure if your question is open for guys only or is it co-ed? But, I will answer it to my best ability. I think that in life you have to take risks, because if you don't you will look back and say, I never really did anything, or really ever loved anyone. Don't stress yourself out about something that you don't even know about yet! You never know, you may meet this one girl, and she may very well be the love of your life, and be faithful, loving, and nurturing to you, and if you let her fly by you, you've just missed your true love. Don't ignore love, because sooner or later, you will feel left out and lonely. Love is meant to happen in your life. Don't throw it away on a negative thought!! Good luck, and try not to think so hard about simple matters of life!!
2007-03-20 02:36:59
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answered by N0+ 3@$!Ly &R0]{3n 3
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My dear, relationships need to be nurtured and not given. Unless you constantly work for the betterment of both parties the relationship may failed. When pessimists think they’re taking a chance, optimists feel they’re grasping a great opportunity.
2007-03-20 02:30:51
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answered by SGElite 7
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The five years of being with someone you love and enjoy being with kind of overules the little time that you hurt if/when you break up. If you don't take chances you are never gonna get anywhere.
2007-03-20 02:31:18
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answered by Amberlee :D 3
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sorry to say,
but for me, it is not normal.....
yeah falling in love can make someone getting hurt...
believe me, it's really hurt when you love someone and someone doesn't love you-unrequited love...but then, you had already had experiencing the feeling of love...you will never regret it as long as you had the opportunity to love.... be gratefull because you still alive and can feel love...like you just said, it just like putting yourself in a danger area, but still you have to ask yourself, are you satisfy in taking risk as you get the experienced of love? well i'm really sorry if you can't understand what i trying to say....but then, love is sooo good!!!
2007-03-20 02:32:27
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answered by pimple_girl88 4
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yeah i was kind of like that over the past year.
but then i realized: loving & having relationships (& maybe sometimes getting hurt) are all part of life.........& maybe you will meet the person that would have been the love of your life but not get to know them better, simply because you were afraid of getting hurt
2007-03-20 02:31:44
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answered by maya 5
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Because love is worth it.
2007-03-20 02:28:09
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answered by Nathan C 2
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we live with love
2007-03-20 02:30:06
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answered by amirat7oby 3
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