so this girl i work with. we started talking. She said she doesn’t has b/f but has a kid. I started liking her, she seemed to like me too (clumsy around me n stealing glances at me. the whole eye contact game,)I asked for her number, she gave me. So I try to call her and ask her to hang out. At first it didn't work b/c of timing and miscommunication. She still seemed interested, so after couple of weeks I try to ask her out again. then she seemed like she didn't want to break my heart, so she said “we'll go out on some special event or s/t like ur b-day party that u had. “
and lately I am getting the vibe she only meant to become friends.
I wouldn’t have thought about liking her, till I got the signs of her being interested in me, but know that i have crush on her, i don't know what to do.
SHOULD I TELL HER WHAT SHE DID? How should I act around her now?
2007-03-20 02:21:44 · 6 answers · asked by S. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should just be her friend if you can stand to be. If she's not taking you up on your offers to take her out, she may not be interested in you like that. Maybe if she got to know you better as a person, she would be more willing to just chill with you and let everything else come natural. Just call her and see how she's doing and continue talking to her at work. If it's meant to be it will be. Good Luck!
2007-03-20 02:32:10 · answer #1 · answered by FemFatale 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Act casual. Wait it out and see what happens. If in a few weeks or so she still just acts like she just wants to be friends then just be friends bc you have to remember she has a child and her work life is important to her because it is all she has to support herself and her child...she may not want to get involved in a work relationship.
2007-03-20 02:43:31 · answer #2 · answered by Amberlee :D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go go tell her just like that. You have a crush on her and that you want to go out with her on date not just be friends. Good Luck
2007-03-20 02:29:57 · answer #3 · answered by Cj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is what they call a tease; she enjoys the game but has no interest in a real relationship.
Let it drop and go on to someone else. Learn from your experience.
2007-03-20 02:38:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
swallow it and actliked it never hapened cause if you tell her the truth about your crush she might get freaked the **** out and put up a wall against you
2007-03-22 07:11:44 · answer #5 · answered by killer boy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her that you like her and that you thought she liked you back...just talk about it and see where it goes from there...
2007-03-20 02:27:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋