My girlfriend broke up with me last night... it was really unexpected. I usually call her as I'm walking to my evening class and we talk for a few minutes, but last night she chose that time to break up with me... because she knew I'd have to go take my midterm and I wouldn't be able to respond.
Last night, I was incredibly angry with her because I thought that was a really cowardly and self centered way and time to break up with a person.
Today, I'm depressed. I don't have much confidence in myself when it comes to girls... so every time I break up, I feel like I'll never find another person again. And this particular girlfriend was so special to me, and we had so much in common... and I always thought we were so happy together. I really didn't see breakup coming.
2007-03-20 02:21:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm sorry to hear that dear. There's other fish and the sea and you probably deserve better than her.
2007-03-20 04:35:44 · answer #1 · answered by Keiko 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok.. that was really really bad.. but cheer up.. Maybe u and ur girl need some space.. Why not try give her space and privacy to think of the things she's done..both of you should take your time.. for you, why not try to do some sports?? it is a good way to defeat frustrations plus it's a good exercise and it trains you in your discipline.. Do some relaxing stuff like goin to a spa or something.. You both should relax a bit and give each other some spaces, sometimes for lovers, these things happen.. maybe in the future, you can get along with her again and make up...cheer up man..
2007-03-20 02:45:28 · answer #2 · answered by khat_18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry to hear that this happened to you.
YOu are right, she really was very cowardly in doing that to you over the phone.
Remember that when you think of her.
Do you want to date a coward.
She did you a favor because it is better to find out that she was a coward now ....
You are going to finish your degree program soon.
There are so many women who are taking your current courses.
why not cultivate some friendships with them?
If you really want to get revenge on her, study really hard so that you can make the best grades on ALL of your remaining finals.
Dont let her think that she is going to ruin your life.
Today is the first day of the rest of your life.
There are plenty of women who would love to date you (you found her when you were least expecting it...so it will go for the next woman in your life too)
2007-03-20 02:27:00 · answer #3 · answered by lisa s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry for your loss. Stick with friends, and do not isolate. Examine, honestly, your past patterns, and try to determine what part you had in the failure of past relationships. You sound like a relationship-type of person, so you must figure out a way to love yourself and be okay BY YOURSELF. After that, a happy healthy relationship will happen for you. But first, look inside.
2007-03-20 02:26:52 · answer #4 · answered by jimmyjohn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look around there are girls all around you.....get over it and move because you can't make someone want you that don't....I know you are all emotional right now but you have to realize that being sad over a girl who is not even your wife is not going to solve anything so you have to keep your life moving once you move on you will feel better because you have someone else in your life and believe me it will hurt her to see you with someone else because that will let her know how much of a good man she lost and that your happy without her
2007-03-20 02:27:19 · answer #5 · answered by sexsired 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Worry not, my lad. Soon when you once again sail the seven seas and stop at a small port city to loot and plunder, you'll find another bonny lass that'll give ya another chance to love again.
2007-03-20 03:48:08 · answer #6 · answered by Mega64 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do nothing rt now..
especially DO NOT contact her in any way, give her the gift of missing you..
think, ponder, begin your journey to learn as you never have..
first,
becomeaplayer.com..read and learn my friend..read, read, read,
then...
playboyskool.com
read..
then...
spend the 40 dollars or so and read somemore
you're on your way
there are sooo many women out there...
say hi to them ...
good luck
2007-03-20 02:28:47 · answer #7 · answered by Gary G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋