i luv her very much but or parents are not accepting for our marraige, due to cast problem wht should i do and is our age diffrence is too much or ok.
2007-03-20 02:19:39 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Age gap shouldn't be a problem for you. Also, caste is never a problem. If you truly love her and she loves you too, you guys gotta try and convince your parents that your choice is the right one. Let your parents trust you. Let them have faith in your decisions. i'm sure they would agree if you can prove yourself as a mature and a wise person.
All the best...
:-)
2007-03-21 18:42:50 · answer #1 · answered by plato's ghost 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you need to find out whether she is interested or not, if she is I don't think that 4 years elder would be a problem but if the age gap is of 6-10 years then it is a serious issue as thee are matters when there can be arguments as both belong to different age group and since girls mature faster it can be an issue as well in addition the conceiving of the child also should be soon as she is elder to you and the period for her after 30 is not very fertile.
2007-03-20 02:33:00 · answer #2 · answered by Goodguy 4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There appears to be 2 problems actually in your question - caste and age difference. Caste system is a curse in Indian society. If someone can break the taboo and marry someone from a caste which is considered inferior to his/her caste, then he/she must be commended highly.
Most men marry women younger than themselves. There might be some rationale behind this about which I am unaware. But in this age of liberal thinking, even the age consideration is being brushed aside by many young people who are in love with each other. Your fiance being 4 years senior to you isn't considered a great difference these days.
If you can overlook your respective parents' disapproval in matters of caste and age, you can surely marry. The choice is up to both of you.
2007-03-20 04:07:52 · answer #3 · answered by Modest 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see the age difference as being a problem, the parents however; are an entirely different kettle of fish.
I don't know which country you both originate from so therefore, I can't offer much advice here, other than trying to convince her folks that your intentions are good ones.
Having said that, this may be akin to beating your head against a brick wall.
2007-03-20 02:26:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
haaaa!
Not a problem. Age is not an issue .
Make sure: You can support her after marraige, you are just 21, do you have a career?
What if you end up being a father at 22?
Are you ready for it?
Maybe both of you should wait for sometime
2007-03-20 03:04:17 · answer #5 · answered by Hungry soul 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-03-21 07:25:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain ur situation of mind to ur parents and try to solve it. But do marry her.
2007-03-20 07:52:10 · answer #8 · answered by handsom_from_pune 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the age difference is fine! like they say age doesn't matter when it comes to love!
2007-03-20 10:08:07 · answer #9 · answered by Miss Cucumber Melon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you both feel good about your relationship, you should marry.
After all, "jab mian biwi razi, to kya karega kazi"
2007-03-20 03:53:38 · answer #10 · answered by ANUJ G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋