Me and my gf split up a few weeks ago but we still have 2 see each other everyday, we get on fine but i decided i need my space because i still have feelings for her and it was quite difficult so i moved back home for a few days and stopped getting in contact. she called me and asked why i had not been in contact and didnt reply to her msg. she also got funny with me when she asked when i was going back and i replied, i dont know. i then thought id text her to see how things were and she seems to be ingnoring me. whats going on with her? Oh, and she broke up with me.
2007-03-20 02:08:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This girl wants to have her cake and eat it! She wants all the benefits of being able to rely on you, and have you at her beck and call but doesn't want to give anything back by being in a relationship with you!
It's going to be tough but for your own sake you need to make a break. There's nothing to say you can't be friends at some point in the future but not right now - not whilst you still have feelings for her.
It may be that a break will make her realise what she's missing or indeed that you realise you can live without her.
If you don't make that break it'll be hard to differentiate between what was and what is now. Plus having your ex so firmly in your life is a surefire way to put of any decent future girlfriend prospects!
If she really appreciated you and genuinely cared for you, she wouldn't have dumped on you in the first place. She made the break and now she'll have to build bridges if anyone is going to. However, I'm a firm believer that there's usually a reason why people break up and unless that reason has gone away, it's best you move on with your lives!
2007-03-20 02:17:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to remind your ex g/friend who was the one who decided to call it off. I do think she still likes you,cant understand why she dumped you tho! You need to talk to her and say the reason i dont reply to your texts is cause we have split up(through your choice)and i think a little break will allow us to get over the situation. You never know she may say i made a terrible mistake and want u back!! If she does have a little chat about the relationship 1st as you dont want to go through that again.....Good luck 2u.
2007-03-20 02:21:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are both trying to get on with things but it is clear that there are still unresolved issues between you both. you need to text her and tell her to meet up with you to discuss any problems you both may have and decide between you if it is best to stay in contact or not
2007-03-20 03:07:43 · answer #3 · answered by fear of the dark 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like this girl wants to feel NEEDED.
Perhaps you din't give her much attention when you
were together. She could just be testing you.
Give each other space. You don't seem to be on
the same wavelength. Perhaps its time to finish for
good.
2007-03-20 02:26:17 · answer #4 · answered by Minxy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is just used to you being around every day . Tell her you're finding it harder to deal with than she is, and that you need a complete break from her to get over it.
2007-03-20 02:23:37 · answer #5 · answered by finch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since you ignored her first she is trying to get back at you pa i know it's hard becuase trust me itz been a month and i still love my ex but you gotta try to let go everything happenes for a reason just remember that
2007-03-20 02:13:32 · answer #6 · answered by newyorican chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well she felt ignored and thats why she doing the same to you.
2007-03-20 02:27:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rid
2007-03-20 02:17:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she still likes you
2007-03-20 02:12:58 · answer #9 · answered by MaTTaY 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋