I just know that it seems when i spend alot of time with my man we argue but not as much but when we don't having really any time to spend together we argue all the time...........So what do you think?
2007-03-20 02:04:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Both, you need to have an optimal. If you spend too much time with each other, then you get bored and start taking things for granted as well as stop appreciating things, but if you spend much time far apart from each other then you will drift further and further away from each other resulting in a break up.
the relationship is like the string of a bow, if it is too tight it may cut, if it is too loos it cant fire the arrow...So you need to find the golden point, that depends on the string and the bow (the two partners). you can only find this point by trying...
hope i help you on this one sister...
2007-03-20 02:13:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you both argue a lot.
I always found it good to spend lots of time together. My wife and I each do things separately, too. I have my friends come over one day a week to play a card game or a board game. She goes out to a restaurant, or whatever she wants.
If you can't be together, then why get married?
2007-03-20 09:11:35 · answer #2 · answered by A Military Veteran 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as though you and your man are not best friends. If your relationship is based strictly on sex or physical attraction, its not a good match.
My wife is my best friend, bar none. Even though we spend a lot of time together we don't fight, and seldom get on each others nerves. It works quite well.
2007-03-20 09:15:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i find that when im with my girlfriend a lot we sort of might bicker back and forth about little things. but i think that when we are away we argue more. we were long distance for like 5 months and it was A LOT of arguing. so yea i think that if you are together a lot, you might have short arguments about small things, but being away you have bigger ones.
2007-03-20 09:08:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to spend enough time together to keep the relationship going but yes!! too much time together is not good!
2007-03-20 09:13:26 · answer #5 · answered by jon jon's girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
too much time together does cause tension. but not enough time together does the same. you have to find that comfort zone, when there's no tension and you both get fair amount of time with eachother
2007-03-20 09:17:42 · answer #6 · answered by M!sta Carter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both ways
2007-03-20 09:11:35 · answer #7 · answered by Gypsy Gal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋