im only 20 and im dying to have a daughter. im planing to get married in like 8 years. . i cant wait to have a daughter
BECAUSE IM GOING TO SPOIL THE HELL OUT OF HER!!
she will too spoiled that no man on this earth will be good enough for her. she will always be daddy's little girl !!
and idc what people say!!
so when she grows up she will be "oh my dad gave me everything ive ever wanted ," and SHE WILL APPERCIATE THAT !!!!
and im gonna call her EMIRA. it means princess in arabic
cause shes gonna BE A PRINCESS!! ill make sure ill marry a pretty wife lol,
dont u guys agree with me that if u spoil ur kids they will appreciate it in the future?
im expecting smart answers like " ok,but what if ur first kid was a boy" then im gonna send him back LOL and get a girl !
2007-03-20 01:59:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
Well, I have a 6 y/o "princess" and it's fun - nothing wrong with spoiling her a bit, LOL.
BUT introduce her to chores early on, give her a daily chore and tell her, that you and daddy will do everything for her, but you guys are a family, and in a family, everybody helps. My DD could be considered spoiled, but she willingly helps with the chores now at age 6 and even asks for chores.
It gives her a feeling of contributing to the family, and for whatever reason, but the other girls in her class are envious on her because of her chores???!!! Who'll ever understand children, LOL.
So as long as you keep her feet on the ground, it's not bad to spoil her a bit and buy her the cutest Gymboree-outfits and American Girl-dolls and whatever you want to buy her, but teach her that she needs to be a good kid to receive all those privileges.
2007-03-20 10:44:42 · answer #1 · answered by Chevrolet*Blazer*Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now I know you MUST be crazy, lol. Listen I have 4 younger brothers and I dont spoil any of them!! If they want something, sure Ill give it when I WANT TO GIVE IT so they know that in future life, they cant always get what they want when they want it! ...
What happens if your going thro a tough time in your future (sumahallah) and your daughter wants something expensive and your just not able to get it at that point, then what? Then she will be sad and crying and screaming to get it cause thats how spoiled kids are (They expect to have whatever they want RIGHT AWAY).
Ive babysat sooo many spoiled kids and still do and whenever I know Ill be babysitting more than once... then I try to make them not so whiny and spoiled especially when they want candy and they KNOW they cant have but they think Im stupid. No no no, Im smarter than that!!! Lol.
But yet still kids are just so precious and adorable, I love them no matter what. But anyways... kids who are spoiled will drive you craaaazyyyy! Your daughter (inshallah) will and should be grateful to you no matter what. In this life, materialistic things dont mean anything! Your going to have to teach her about appreciating the fact she has food and nice place to live and other families are poor and have nowhere to live and are dying day by day. If she is taught well and deserves everything you give her then by all means... go ahead and spoil her but also let her know how it is and things cant always go her way. You say your going to spoil the hell outta her but you dont know how it is yet to raise a child, when you see thats it is pretty hard then I think your perspective of things will change completely!
Ive raised 4 brothers and 4 nephews and 2 neices and another neice will be born anytime now inshallah so I deffinetely know how it is.
2007-03-20 04:49:25 · answer #2 · answered by *HILWA* 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Spoiled, indulged little girls grow up into selfish, self-absorbed adults. She may be too busy with herself and her own needs to even remember that you "gave her everything she ever wanted" let alone take the time to thank you for it.
Do her a favour ..... Indulge her at times, but teach her the value of working for her rewards. That way you will raise a daughter who is capable of thinking for herself.
And for the record, I "ordered" girls too, and it didn't work!!
2007-03-20 02:08:05 · answer #3 · answered by catfish 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your spoiled daughter MAY grow up to appreciate you spoiling her, but I don't think your plan will work exactly as your pea-sized brain thinks . She will most likely grow up not appreciating anything you give her because she gets whatever she wants. She will not have respect for anything, and it is very likely that she will grow up to be alone because nobody will ever measure up to her dumb-a** daddy; AND nobody will want to be around her because she will most likely be a snobby little brat!
Grow up...
2007-03-20 02:14:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you need to grow up a bit before you have kids
and i think youve been watching super sweet sixteen too much luv
spoilt kids grow up to be horrendous adults im so glad i aint raising my girl like that at least i know she will be a well adjusted adult
2007-03-20 02:24:07 · answer #5 · answered by fran p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww thats cute..
Ive never met some1 that cant wait to have a kid..
I cant wait 2 have kids on my own..
but hey..what matter is the baby is born healthy!!
but I would like a boy 1st..so he could take care of his lil sisters.
so any1 who picks on my little girls my son would be there to bust there @ss's lol
I love my brother..his the best..I hope I have kids like him!
I already know what to name them.lol
2007-03-20 02:26:34 · answer #6 · answered by G?ld?n ang?l 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u say u don't care what people think, why are u asking this question.
a spoiled kid will act spoiled towards u as well.
2007-03-20 02:54:29 · answer #7 · answered by Miki 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋