Me and my gf split up a few weeks ago but we still have 2 see each other everyday, we get on fine but i decided i need my space because i still have feelings for her and it was quite difficult so i moved back home for a few days and stopped getting in contact. she called me and asked why i had not been in contact and didnt reply to her msg. she also got funny with me when she asked when i was going back and i replied, i dont know. i then thought id text her to see how things were and she seems to be ingnoring me. whats going on with her?
2007-03-20 01:47:22 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't try to figure her out. She's your ex for a reason.
2007-03-20 01:50:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she's confused. who broke up the relationship? seems she wants her cake and to eat it too - no relationship, but you to be there for the emotional support etc as before.
have you explained to her how your feeling? perhaps this might be an idea? if she understands why you need some distance, which in the long term may benefit both of you, perhaps she will give you the time to work it out and come back as a friend
2007-03-20 01:54:09 · answer #2 · answered by hazei_2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She broke up with you, right?
Well I think the lady wants to have her cake and eat it.
Tell her that you need time to heal as seeing her everyday just reopens the wound [sorry its a bit corny]. So you have no choice BUT to stay away.
Ask her if she wants to reconcile [if thats what you want], at least this way you'll get an answer, to how she feels.
GOOD LUCK
2007-03-20 02:09:38 · answer #3 · answered by Lizzo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what I understand, shes playing a little hard to get maybe.
You write that she asked you why you havent replied her msgs, so this mean you didnt do it either?
I mean kind of complicated, the real question is, do you still love her?
2007-03-20 01:53:07 · answer #4 · answered by samantha21it 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just get on with your life. You broke up for a reason and in my experience you should never go backwards. Keep your distance and look forward to the rest of your life. It's harsh at times but it's the only way.
2007-03-20 01:53:55 · answer #5 · answered by little ninny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you guys are still seeing each other because you are so used to each other's company. I think you guys need an official break and not see each other for a bit to sort out your true feelings. This setup makes it kinda hard for both of you to figure out how you really feel about each other and you'll just keep on doing the motional seesaw.
2007-03-20 01:52:51 · answer #6 · answered by shere143 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Women are aggravating and backwards at times. I know because I am one. My ex had the same interaction with me when we broke up. Luckily, I'm well adjusted so we laughed about it after we had sufficient time to move on. Tell her you need time to get her out of your system. Either she accepts or not. You're broken up anyway so it shouldn't matter.
2007-03-20 01:53:54 · answer #7 · answered by imagine_tha_possibilities 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have split up you both need to move on with your lives and stop playing games and second guessing each other.
2007-03-20 01:51:34 · answer #8 · answered by ANDREW J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... I think that you two still have feelings for eachother and before when you 2 saw eachother everyday she was OK with it. So I think that You should give it another try with her. Who knows you might be surprised with what happens.
2007-03-20 01:53:26 · answer #9 · answered by Sno-man 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is odd. Exes don't often call or text to see why their ex hasn't contacted them. That just seems strange. Perhaps she is still not over you and finds it hard that you have just vanished.
2007-03-20 01:59:00 · answer #10 · answered by lollysarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's upset and confussed and obviously hasn't acceted the way that yu are feeling. she probably needs you to tell her properly that you are over because she might think thast you just need space rather than it being a permanant split
2007-03-20 01:54:08 · answer #11 · answered by confused 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋