I had a friend who I think had a hard time expressing himself. I have no problem expressing myself when I have had enough of something and it may come out in the wrong way but I get it out. I thought he was my secret pal once and he denied it but I am not sure by his actions because he acted differently towards me. Now, we don't talk. I think he is just a tease. I was married before for 12 years and he was, too, a few times.
2007-03-20 01:45:12 · 5 answers · asked by Sweet Pea 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he hasn't grown up and shedded this ' macho ' thing that you can't share emotions etc with women for fear of being a wimp --- i wouldn't waste my time on someone like this --- move on there has to be better fish in the ocean . good luck
2007-03-20 01:53:34 · answer #1 · answered by bill g 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Actually, because there's no need to share them. 'Sharing them is a female trait designed to allow them to release innate anxiety developed by a recent stressor. Men, however, see problems as something to be 'fixed'; which in fact they are. To tell a man about a problem you are having will elicit a response aimed at resolving the problem. But to 'share' your concern with another female will only elicit empathy, which to a female is what she expects. Females are satisfied to leave the problem unsolved, risking that it worsen as long as they were able to 'talk it out' with another person and 'feel' that they've been understood.
2007-03-20 02:07:58 · answer #2 · answered by annoyed_with_the_other_answers 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 00:26:36 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too much expression of feelings is icky and self-indulgent.
2007-03-20 01:53:51 · answer #4 · answered by tenbadthings 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
simply because they are guys and they cant really express their feelings
2007-03-20 01:56:14 · answer #5 · answered by frantic! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋