Just there on paddys day, i bumped into a girl i had a bit of history with about 3 years ago. We were about 17 at the time and i had a connection with her like no other person ive ever met. And she felt the same. What can i say i loved the dame.
Any way when i bumped into her in a club, she called over one of her mates and says 'me and him used to be best of friends'.
I then realised she was here with a boyfriend. But anyway i proceeded to talk to her, wisper in her ear etc., and she was loving it! I was loving it too. I told her she broke my little heart by not keeping in contact, and she said she was sorry.
But after that she told me a little story, and this is where things get hazy, she asked me if i liked her ring, i said i did, she then told me it was an engagement ring from her boyfriend, and iwas like oh, my heart sunk, and then she goes 'only jokin if he was that serious at this age i wud dump him'.
Now im trying not to read into this too much but is she saying that
2007-03-20 01:44:15 · 20 answers · asked by Gentleman 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hings arent going well between them, or he isnt the one for her, or what, what was she telling me????
13 hours ago
I have her no.
Should i text her, shud i meet up with her,
what is the right thing to do???
My head is spinning, and it hasnt spun like this since i was last in her company.
2007-03-20 01:44:24 · update #1
Your breakin my heart girls.
2007-03-20 01:50:27 · update #2
Just to clear that up she aint engaged, she even joked how dumb i was cos it was on the wrong finger.
2007-03-20 01:53:56 · update #3
No it wasnt in cavendish!
Ha i would hate if either of them found out
2007-03-20 03:14:23 · update #4
sounds like she still likes you but she has a boyfriend. you could call her or text her but dont lead her to believe you are about doing anything behind her boyfriends back. think of some excuse to talk to her but dont just ask her out and bring up the boyfriend thing like "well, if you didnt have a boyfriend".....
things like that so she will get it that will let her know you are interested but that your not going to be a guy on the side.
if she breaks up with him ... theres your chance!!!
2007-03-20 01:54:12 · answer #1 · answered by samira 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok well firstly, the way this girl introduced as you's were once 'best of friends' then this means she still thinks a lot of you that I am defo sure of.
Secondly, when you were whispering in her ear she was loving it which means either she is a flirt and loves this kind of attention and is playing you or she genuinely enjoyed YOU whispering in her ear.
She actually asked you if you liked her ring so this tells that she WANTED you to notice she had a ring on her finger and she either wanted you to be jealous which is shocking but it does happen or she was secretly hoping you would do something to 'get your girl' back!
Maybe you could get this girl to one side and ask if you could have a quiet word with her privately somewhere and by the sounds of how close you and she used to be then she will probably say 'yeah of course you can' and then you can tell her exactly how you feel and ask her the questions you would like answers to but also say to her that you will not think any differently of her whatever she feels or says all you want is for her to be honest with you and who know she may appreciate you open your heart to her like this and she may do the same.
One way or another you will know after you have had this talk with her because if she continues to flaunt the fact she's engaged or she isn't engaged but has other lad or lads on the go then you will know that she is not the one for you, but like i say before this could also go the other way and you both could realise you both want to be together.
I hate it when ppl play mind games, it is not right and it hurts innocent ppl coz it plays with their minds etc
I really hope everything turns out ok for you and you get your girl or if not, look at it this way .....there is one lucky girl out there just waiting for you to come and get her :o)
I would like to know the outcome of this so please do keep us updated ok chick xx
2007-03-20 02:25:06 · answer #2 · answered by KT 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want it go for it--all is fair until she walks down the isle with the dude.
If fate should have had it where you crossed paths again just in time to possibly intervene in a marriage that should not take place you should take heed. You may be doing her the biggest favor anyone has ever done for her. Fate may be pointing you both in each other's direction again for a purpose. Follow where the arrows point and follow your heart.
Beware, you could be a last fling so watch your back and enter into your decision with your eyes open for that possibility. You will never know unless you try.
2007-03-20 02:07:53 · answer #3 · answered by Wicked Little Lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lets face facts - she is there with her boyfriend, doesn't that tell you enough.
Maybe send her a text to say it was great seeing her again and maybe you could catch up again soon and see what she says.
If she plans on cheating on her b'friend with you - then she isn't worth it anyway - she will inevitably cheat again when she gets bored.
If she dumps her boyfriend and you two get it on - then good luck to you - sounds like you have met a corker.
Just be careful that your not setting yourself up to be heart broken again though - nothing worse than being bitten twice on that front!
I think what she was trying to tell you is she likes her fun - she prob enjoys flirting with you and prob thinks it wouldn't ever go anywhere - but shes not up for a serious relationship either with you or her current bloke.
2007-03-20 02:47:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From your q "I told her she broke my little heart by not keeping in contact,"
Sounds to me like she didn't make much of en effort the last time dude. She likes the attention. She might share a sense of humour with you and like your company, but if she was keen she would have found an excuse to see, speak to you again. She was clearly trying to get a reaction out of you with engagement ring line to see if you wanted her, to confirm that she is goodlooking. Like I say she is an attention seeker and you need to move on. Like I say she wasn't that bothered last time.
2007-03-20 02:16:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You hurt her too much in the past and she still has feelings for you as shes trying to make you jealous and run after her but what you should do is up to you - you may get hurt again but if you are strong enough give her a call. she can only say no!
2007-03-20 02:02:30 · answer #6 · answered by Jackie M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like she is saying that she and her current boyfriend are not serious but she isn't ready for a serious relationship. She's just trying to have some fun before she decides to settle down just tell her how you feel about her and ask her for a sincere answer about the two of you and any hopes of the two of you being involved agian.
2007-03-20 01:52:53 · answer #7 · answered by charitydowling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she was your girlfriend how would you feel if you knew she had been chatting and flirting with one of her ex boyfriends? If she does it once she will do it again. Once a flirt always a flirt and flirting can lead to other things. Stay clear and find someone new, you have llived without her all this time. You should never go back.
2007-03-20 02:16:10 · answer #8 · answered by BWgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is she trying to have her cake and eat it too. She's flirting with you at the club and joking about her fiance. You're right, it's a little mind boggling. I can't say for sure what she is trying to say, only she can answer that. But is it right to go after her being that she's engaged? That's something you have to ask yourself.
2007-03-20 01:51:07 · answer #9 · answered by GirlsDeadMonster 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 10:48:04 · answer #10 · answered by ghalieh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋