i got a friend here whose A LOT older than me.. he already had a wife and i'm just 14.. should i tell him how i feel?? or should i just forget it and just be friends with him?.. it's so difficult.. please help..
2007-03-20 01:42:44 · 9 answers · asked by -ayumi- 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my friend.......... just be a friend of him. now it may be difficult for you. but see, your feelings towards dat man may be an affection only. it may not be true love. try to control your feelings. you can do that because you have a good character. believe that he is not the man of you........... your man will come when you need him.
2007-03-21 17:44:50 · answer #1 · answered by bilahari a 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are only 14. Move on. He's older and probably doesn't feel the same way. I know from my cousin's past experiences that someone who is a lot older really isn't all that interested in a 14-year-old. Save yourself the heartache and find someone your own age who is interested in someone their age.
2007-03-20 08:47:22 · answer #2 · answered by Jessie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at 14 you shouldn't even be thinking of being with a man who has already been married. You are to young and only asking for trouble. How old is this guy anyway?
2007-03-20 08:46:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's already had a wife?
that's pretty dramatic. he would have to be atleast 19, 20?
and you are 14..
i think you should wait, you don't want to put him under pressure and make him do something illegal.
not that you innocent 14 year olds would consent to that anyways.
2007-03-20 08:46:43 · answer #4 · answered by MaTTaY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are only 14 just be friends you are too young you have a lot of living to do get a career take care good luck
2007-03-20 08:47:33 · answer #5 · answered by freeflow 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you tell him issues will go around and maybe his wife will knew about it and she'll get hurt, i suggest that you only make friends w/ him, because many person will get hurt,
after all your still young, you have more time to look for your true love,.....!
2007-03-20 08:49:51 · answer #6 · answered by igel manalo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have answered your own question!
1. you are only 14,
2. he has a wife.
Go and meet some boys your own age. yes, i know they are all idiots but you need people in your own age group.
Keep him as a friend. You dont want his missus on your case, do you?
2007-03-20 09:36:50 · answer #7 · answered by Freckles2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its just a teenage crush..it will pass..in the meantime, don't do anything silly to jeopardise your friend's marriage. if you can't hide you feelings, then please keep your distance from him and find friends your age that you'll hang out and go to the movies with!
2007-03-20 08:46:49 · answer #8 · answered by sweetDove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come with me !
if you tell him that don't think you'll be able to walk ..
2007-03-20 08:46:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋