I was out on the town Sunday, I went to a club with my boyfriend, my friend, and his friend, met up with a few people his friend knows.....All girls. So i was enjoying the night, few drinks, dancing, etc......My boyfriend was sitting down on his own, chilling y'know, this girl practically leaped over the table to drag him up to dance, i pretended not to notice that he didn't put up any resistance, then later another girl ( in front of me) was caressing my boyfriends head and face while talking to him...HELLLLOOOO. Come on now, my boyfriend seemed a bit uneasy with it but maybe it was just because i was there!!!
I dunno, i do trust him, at least i did because ive never been in that situation with him before, never had a reason to question his loyalty, and even though nothing happened, i ask myself, why didnt he avoid the situation, or tell her to stop, so now im thinking, what goes on if im not around. Why do these girls throw themselves at other girls boyfriends????
2007-03-20 01:42:31 · 6 answers · asked by natc 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
They do it to get to you because they know they can. I don't think you have anything to worry about though. These girls are just friends and the fact that he openly danced with them tells me that he has nothing to hide from you. They are wrong for acting this way and it is disrespectful, but don't play into it. Remain cool and calm and they will probably stop doing it once they see they don't bother you. Give it a try .Good luck.
2007-03-20 01:48:11 · answer #1 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they see a guy who is good enough for a girl, since they so insecure instead of developing a relationship with someone, they are trying to get "ready made".
The myth is that a woman has tamed the man, so now the "lioness" can take her pick of "house trained" men who will be "loyal" to the "dominate" female.
2007-03-20 08:47:11 · answer #2 · answered by bright_neon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first I need to know what type of interaction you and your boyf had. If the two of you look like two friends hanging out then I could see why this would happen. My boyf is pretty hot so he gets hit on quite a bit, but it doesn't bother me. As long as your boyf lets these women know that he is taken I wouldn't sweat it.
2007-03-20 08:48:19 · answer #3 · answered by imagine_tha_possibilities 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what counts here is what was his reaction? If was flirting back then it is a problem. You cannot control other people's behavior. What truly counts is the behavior of the one you are with. and if you are unhappy with his behavior, then you should think about that. clubbing does not exactly bring out the best people. so be careful.
2007-03-20 08:48:14 · answer #4 · answered by monalisa79 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they aren't taught better than that any man is an open conquest and they don't care who knows or doesn't like it next time talk it over with your bf and tell him you were uncomfortable with that situationso if he is really yours he won't tolerate that kind of attention again
2007-03-20 08:47:30 · answer #5 · answered by wildirishrose19522000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can say HELLLOOOO to her and tell her excuse me. he is my own and not for public bf.
2007-03-20 08:48:35 · answer #6 · answered by lene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋